Mo Yan, formerly known as Guan Moye, is the first master in China to win the Nobel Prize in Literature, and is popular all over the world with the book "Frog". His work is unique and goes deep into people's hearts.
Prior to this, he had written a number of masterpieces, such as "Rich Breasts and Fat Buttocks", "Nine Kingdoms", "Red Sorghum Family", etc., presenting readers with a rich and diverse literary world.
Mo Yan uses magical realism and white drawing techniques to truly show the irony of human nature and the poverty of the countryside, making the picture of rural China more vivid. His brushstrokes are rooted in real experiences, and he emphasizes that he is just a storyteller.
Mo Yan's upbringing was varied, he came from a poor family, his mother took on the burden of the family alone, and the family lived in the beautiful and simple countryside of Gaomi.
As a child, he was too weak to do heavy work. During difficult times, he would also follow his mother to the market to sell cabbage. Among them, the experience he remembers the most is the day when he sold cabbage in the thirtieth day of the Chinese New Year's Eve.
You didn't disappoint me, you just let yourself down. ”
Mo Yan's family was very poor when he was a child, but there was a gentleman in the village who loved to tell stories, and he would tell vivid stories to everyone in the village every day. Mo Yan likes to listen to stories very much, and sometimes even gives up helping his mother do farm work in order to listen to stories.
Although her mother never complained, she insisted on returning the extra money to the aunt. This incident made Mo Yan deeply remember his mother's teachings, and he understood that integrity is very important for businessmen.
Although Mo Yan was illiterate, her actions deeply affected him and made him understand what true integrity is. Mo Yan has now become a very successful ** family, he always keeps in mind his mother's teachings, and he is honest, which has won the respect and love of readers.
Her mother's wisdom lies in knowing how to guide Mo Yan's love for words and books, so she did not stop Mo Yan from learning. Mo Yan would tell the stories he heard to his family every day, and their laughter and laughter made Mo Yan love this creation even more.
Sometimes, Mo Yan felt that the plot of the story was not rich enough or the ending was not good enough, so he would make up a new plot by himself and tell it to his mother vividly. Although her mother was worried that Mo Yan would become a clever person, she still supported Mo Yan's creation.
Mo Yan's mother adhered to the concept of letting him pursue his love, giving him a lot of freedom, and this education method has a certain reference significance in family education. At an awards ceremony for Mo Yan, he bravely shared a dusty past and told about his mother's experience of being beaten.
When he talked about the plight of life in China back then, the audience burst into warm applause. It is conceivable that in Mo Yan's hometown, the situation was also very difficult. His mother and he were collecting wheat bran in other people's fields, and these seemingly insignificant foods became the food for their family.
In those difficult times, this was not uncommon. This is a helpless way to survive, a choice that is forced to last. However, there is no need for a man who returns to his field and wants to drive away the people who are collecting wheat bran.
As the old saying goes, "It's convenient for others, it's convenient for yourself", not to mention that these wheat brans are already unneeded things, so what's the harm if others pick them up? At that time, many people were driven away, only Mo Yan's mother was caught by this man because her little feet were running slowly.
He raised his arm and gave his mother a slap in the face. The mother fell to the ground, the corners of her mouth still bleeding, and the unyielding and desperate look in her eyes was shocking.
Mo Yan always remembered his mother's eyes back then, and when he was young, he failed to avenge his mother, and this matter haunted his heart for a long time. One afternoon many years later, Mo Yan and his mother were shopping for ingredients at the market, and in a corner, Mo Yan found the man back then.
Although he is no longer what he looked like back then, with white temples and wrinkled faces, Mo Yan still recognizes him at a glance. He had the idea of teaching him a secret lesson, but his mother had already noticed the change in his expression.
Mother took Mo Yan's hand and whispered softly: "That person is not the person who beat her back then, you made a mistake, let him go." Mo Yan knew in his heart that this was his mother's deliberate doing.
The person who beat her back then was right in front of her, and it was impossible to admit her mistake. Mother's intention is to teach Mo Yan the true meaning of tolerance. To tolerate the person who beat her back then is actually to tolerate herself.
This is a valuable lesson that his illiterate mother taught to Mo Yan. Why did Mo Yan forgive that man? And why forgive yourself? In fact, the hardest thing to do in this world is forgiveness.
Uncontrollable hatred can make people lose their minds. "If you drive a dog into a poor alley, you will be devoured", this is the truth.
Time flies", fate allows you to reunite with those who have hurt you, and at the same time, you may also become their "feng shui turn" one day in the future.
This cycle goes on and on, and the fight for a tooth never really ends. The reason why Mo Yan can't forget the person who once beat his mother is actually that he can't let go of his powerlessness and helplessness.
Therefore, to forgive is to forgive oneself and forgive oneself for the cowardice and incompetence that we once had.
Through this incident, we have witnessed the extraordinary intelligence of Mo Yan's mother, which is not conferred by books, but comes from the precipitation and good nature of her mother in life.
In Mo Yan's heart, his mother has always maintained a kind and simple image, and she is a deeply intelligent mother. Although her mother's education level is not high, her education for Mo Yan has never been lacking.
The man who beat her back then, she was still able to choose to forgive, and her magnanimity was admirable. She saw the injuries of the past as floating clouds in the wind.
Whether it is a mother who teaches Mo Yan to be honest, a mother who respects Mo Yan's interests, or a mother who teaches her son to learn to forgive, it is all out of deep love for her children.
These tenacious and tolerant mothers will always be the softest piece in Mo Yan's heart.