There is a big gap between classmates at the middle-aged reunion, and the script has been written when I go to school!
When you reach middle age, you find out at a class meeting that the script was prepared at school.
When you reach middle age, being able to attend a class reunion is an experience full of anticipation and meaning. Good memories and emotions are intertwined to make up a beautiful picture.
Unlike the liveliness of youth, this reunion brings with it a heavy burden of life and a deadly shawarma. Almost everyone has something to say about their life experiences.
The student, who used to be the pillar of the school, had a look of confusion and disappointment on his face when he talked about his chubby body. The chubby, unattractive child of the past is now an economic elite with an indescribable pride on his face.
However, people may forget that those who were considered studious and knowledgeable in their youth"Good student", may not be so interested in class reunions these days. One netizen wrote.
Entering middle age, I attended a class reunion again, but the gap between classmates is getting bigger and bigger. At first glance, a class reunion may seem special, but in reality it turns into a carnival of showing off your wealth. Everyone has chosen the best clothes and jewelry and looks all"Affluent"。
Students with mediocre grades, in particular, seem to prefer to prove their fame through these external things. Girls rely on designer handbags and luxury coats to assert themselves.
And the boys rely on"Waistband"Showing off your confidence and accomplishments without you knowing. Whether you're one of the participants or you don't want to compare yourself to others, there's no way to avoid it.
However, the master soon realizes that no matter how others package him, he is no match for a kind of student. This kind of student is born with one"Aristocrats"temperament, every move is soaked with a noble temperament, which makes people feel that there is no need to prove anything to the senior brothers and sisters.
The author of the poster is less than 40 years old, and he realized that many came here"Students"Never worked after giving birth. He thought he could help them find a job in the future, but in retrospect, he was naïve.
It's not that they don't have jobs, it's that their families are wealthy enough to support a stay-at-home wife. On the most important issue of education, they do not give up their families for a little money. One woman said:"If a mother is overworked, what qualities will her child have? "
As soon as the host heard this, he immediately understood. However, with his own strength, he knew that he simply did not have the necessary qualifications. What's more, there is a large group of people around him"Male students"。
When at school, teachers and parents don't take them seriously. Those who sleep in class, those who are at the bottom of their academic performance, and those who fall in love. The teacher was not a genius, but he worked hard and his parents never worried about him.
However, after graduating from college, he couldn't find a stable job and had to endure the pressures of life and family. In contrast, the boys who were once neglected are now doing well.
The one who slept went home and became a teacher and made everyone make fun of him:"Aren't you afraid of dragging the children back? "The one who didn't study well was arranged into a well-known listed company, enjoying two days off and a light job, not to mention daily social activities.
In fact, the script of life has been set when I was in school, but no one wants to accept it. It took him a long time to calm down after attending the class meeting. He felt that he could endure hardships more than his classmates, but he seemed to be very uncomfortable, which surprised him.
The author draws a startling conclusion from the answers of netizens: we do have one in our lives when we are still in school"Script"。But then no one wanted to admit it,"Class differences"Very obvious.
However, there is no need to worry too much about this injustice on this issue. Let's look at the problem from a different angle, as a famous writer put it:"Is there any reason to say that the foundation that others have worked so hard to lay is not as good as the foundation that they have worked so hard to lay?
The parents and grandparents of these students are either financially wealthy or first-generation workers. This seems fairer in real life.
However, in the eyes of the school and parents at the bottom of society, as long as they study hard and work hard, they can make progress and change their destiny. This mindset is often overlooked"Antecedents and consequences", placing too much emphasis on personal influence.
Of course, people from the lowest strata of society don't necessarily give up the struggle. There is no past, no family, and if you want to change your fate, you can only rely on your own efforts.
Learn to regulate your emotions after attending a class reunion. Some students wear famous brands, drive luxury cars, and live a luxurious life. But there are also middle-aged students who can't afford even the most basic living expenses and tuition fees, and are looking forward to a paycheck every month.
The vast differences between different families can be staggering. Such a huge contrast will inevitably cause some people to feel confused and helpless, which in turn will lead to discomfort.
A person's life is always divided and merged. The resources and circumstances that each person has are unique, and this is not the same as whether you work hard or not. We need to learn to regulate our minds appropriately and focus on our own lives instead of comparing ourselves with others. This is a very important survival strategy.