InlifeSome couples have never been able to get rid of the shackles of traditional concepts, especially the man who has no son after marriageStress。LikeWang YulanSuch a woman, when she is over 40 years old, has been repeatedly forced by her husband to have another dragon baby, which undoubtedly brings her great confusion and entanglement. This article will revolve around this emotional distress and go deeperWomenIn such a traditionStressWhat to choose?
Wang Yulanis a woman in her 40slifeIt should have been happy. She and her husband Liu Ping opened a decorative materials store, and their two lovely daughters are also very smart and well-behaved. Despite a slight downturn in business, butWang YulanBe content and happy with the status quo. However, from the elders of the family and her husband Liu Ping constantlyStress, which made her feel confused and helpless.
Liu Ping's traditional family concept has always made him want to have a son, thinking that this can withstand the siblingsStressand expectations. In addition, Liu Ping's brother's family does not have a son, which increases the relationship between the husband and his wife and relativesWang Yulananticipation and excitement. Wang YulanI once witnessed her sister-in-law want to have another son when she is over 50 years old, but she is helplessly limited by age and fertility. This experience made the family pin all their hopes on itWang Yulanbody.
However, for those who have already experienced two birthsWang YulanHaving a child for the family again is a huge burden. The family's finances and the difficulties of raising children made her reluctant to increase furtherlifeofStress。And, inRuralSocialIf there is no boy to take on the family lineage and succession, all the difficulties and difficulties faced by women will come quickly.
In such a contradictory predicament,Wang YulanI put my choice in my heart. She resolutely does not want to have any more children, not only for the sake of her own health, but also for the sake of her daughters' future. She is determined not to sacrifice her happiness and health for the sake of traditional ideas. She hopes to be able to communicate with her family and husband to find a solution that everyone can be happy with.
InRuralSocial, there is no denying that there is a forMarriageand the traditional expectations of the family. Many people believe that without a boy to adopt the ancestral grave and inherit the family business, a family will become incomplete and even its status may be affected. Such a notion is bound by manyWomenfreedom and agency.
However, modernSocialHuge changes have taken place. Females inEducationand their status in the workplace is no longer low, and they need to have more space and time to pursue their careers and dreams. Having a child has become a family's free choice insteadSocialMandatory requirements.
ForWomenHaving a child is never easy. Child'sEducation, growth and the future require a huge investment of material and energy. And women also need to juggle work and family roles, which brings them a lotStressand burdens.
Therefore, under the traditional notion ofWomenWe need to face up to our own values and rights, and be brave enough to advocate for equality and respect. They should find a balanced and harmonious way in the family, and have in-depth communication and understanding with the family. Together** and find a way to happiness that suits your family.
In this day and age, women should be empowered to make their own decisions about their own reproductive choices. Whether to have children or not to have children, it should be based onWomenDecisions made based on one's own wishes and physical condition. under the traditional conceptStressand expectations can only affect people's inner and psychological well-being, but cannot give substantial help and support.
Therefore, women should be brave enough to face the expectations of their relatives andStressStick to your heart and your choices. Find a balance between meeting your family's expectations and protecting your own well-being. You can have an open conversation with your family to share your confusion and concerns and find solutions together. At the same time, it is also advisable to seek appropriate professional support and consult a doctor or counsellor.
Whatever your choice, it's important to take care of your physical and mental health, and to believe that your worth and meaning don't just depend on whether or not you have a lifeParentingChild. Females inSocial, whether as a mother, a wife, or a working person, should be treated with full respect and equality.
And most importantly,WomenBelieve that your choice is the right one and work for the happiness of yourself and your family. WhateverlifeAs long as you have faith and support your family, you will be able to find the path that suits you best.