Deep people are like a bottomless black hole, even if you treat them sincerely, it is difficult to see through them. With such a person, not only can you not get the truth, but you also face huge risks and unbearable suffering. Although sophisticated people are good at disguising themselves, any disguise will be exposed.
Knowledgeable people are usually strong in personal strength but weak in social behavior. They are good at showing weakness, just like Nie Huisang in the TV series "Chen Qingling", who is weak and ordinary on the surface, and is regarded as an idle person. However, he manipulated a big situation to lure everyone into the game to help his brother get revenge, but he was able to retreat completely, continuing to maintain his "ignorance" of the man.
People who are good at showing weakness when speaking are not easy to offend others, and would rather suffer losses themselves than disturb the calculations and situations in their hearts. People use the city to hide the strong with the weak, reduce their sense of existence and threat, and finally take the element of surprise to give people a fatal blow. When he "demotes" himself, in fact, he may inadvertently gain a lot of things, because people have human weaknesses, and "good teachers" are a common characteristic of many people.
People who understand the principle of "good words are warm in three winters, and bad words are painful in June" often use this concept. They often flatter others and give people high hats, if there is a person who flatters others every day, you have to be careful, he is a person of great depth, do not be fooled by his sugar-coated shell. Be clear about your real situation, and don't exaggerate just because others praise you.
People who own cities know how to show strength with weakness in hand-to-hand combat, reduce their sense of presence and threat, and finally surprise and give people a fatal blow. When they "knock down" themselves, they may actually get a lot of things inadvertently, because people have human weaknesses, and "good teachers" are a common characteristic of many people.
For people like Song Zhiwen, a poet in the early Tang Dynasty, if they flatter you, you are in danger because they will squeeze your use value and sell you without hesitation. In the TV series "Langya Bang", Mei Changsu has multiple identities, and his words are often half-truths and half-truths, skillfully pulling the city's dignitaries into applause. Mei Changsu seems to be a famous king on the surface, but the person he really wants to support is King Jing. It was precisely because everyone couldn't guess what he said and couldn't guess what he was thinking that Mei Changsu was able to accomplish what he wanted to do.
Wang Zhiwen said: "Why bother to expose when you see a person, and why turn your eyes on if you hate a person." "Profound people only speak halfway, never finish, leaving three points for themselves. When he speaks, it's always hard to figure out what he's talking about. That's why knowledgeable people always take the initiative into their own hands.
Deep people, everything is developed on the basis of risk, they are very good at avoiding risks, like to be cautious in words and deeds, and at the same time cautious, their inner defense is also very high. Things are constantly evolving, so no one knows what the future holds. Firmness often means taking risks, so when the decision of the majority is required, we cut our losses.
A person's bad attitude again and again can be perceived by others as a sign of stubbornness and carelessness. Profound people are not necessarily bad, they are just versatile and know not to offend people easily.
Wei Xiaobao in "The Deer and the Pot" seems to be an ignorant person, that is, a little rascal, but he is smart and cunning, lives a comfortable and handsome life, and also understands that the morality of this world is eternal, and he is a versatile person. He loves money and has a lot of power, but he is in awe of it.
Get along with others, never let the people around you suffer, and people who know how to make good use of them can also skillfully let bad people get the retribution they deserve. Versatile people can always move around, have a larger circle of friends, are good at talking, can get along with anyone, and are not sinners. It is human instinct to seek advantage and avoid disadvantage.
Everyone will try to protect themselves when they encounter things, such as some extreme weather, a person will choose to stay at home or stay in other safer places. It is also an instinct for a very deep person to say something, but he pays more attention to the skill of speaking, and does not go straight and make others think that he is a person who is "selfish".
We must safeguard our own interests, but we must not harm the interests of others, let alone offend anyone. Real people will look at people with their hearts, get along with people more easily, and rarely have conflicts when working with people. They will not actively infringe on the interests of others, nor will they allow their own interests to be violated again and again.
When you meet the bad guys, you know how to retreat, and when you meet the bad guys, you have enough power to protect yourself. They are very tailor-made and can get along well with any kind of person, because they know what others care about, will consider him, and do not harm the interests of others, so they rarely offend people.
Smart people never put themselves in an awkward position and don't get in trouble for talking. A person with real depth knows that people are suspicious and fickle, so he uses you to reassure, in fact, he gives you a reassuring pill, so that you can trust him wholeheartedly, so that you can accept all his arrangements, so that you can listen to him. It's the best way for them to move forward, and it's the key to their ability to get stronger and stronger.
When he helps you do something, you actually owe him a favor, which is the key to his ability to use you in the future, and it is also the basis for their cunning.
People cannot avoid interacting with others in society, and language is indispensable in the process of communication. Everyone speaks every day, but being able to speak and being able to speak well are two different things. Talking is with us throughout our lives, from babbling to witticisms, it can't be done overnight.
In life, everyone speaks differently, some people speak straight, and some people are good at Tai Chi when they speak. Usually, we have seen people who play tai chi, playing tai chi, you push me to go, you push me to go, and complete the whole movement in one push. From the movements of Tai Chi, we can also understand what it means to speak and play Tai Chi, that is, to push and shove when speaking, not to focus on the point, and to say a bunch of nonsense vaguely.
A person with a city, if he has disagreements with others, then he communicates effectively with others, discusses everything. People who go deep into the city are born masters of communication, and he knows that everything needs to be discussed, which is conducive to strengthening cooperation, building consensus, and achieving goals. And their tone is polite, it doesn't make you feel oppressed, it makes you feel comfortable. Although the opponent does not agree with the opponent in the process of communicating with the hostile emotions, his attitude will quickly soften. Therefore, when we deal with family problems, we must learn more from people in the city, if we learn this kind of communication skills, what kind of family conflicts can be resolved, to ensure that the couple will always live in a state of love.
In this world, each of us loves to hear good words, and most of us will feel comfortable hearing these compliments. As the saying goes, good words warm winter, bad words hurt June. When praising others, others hear these kind words, and they are like enjoying the spring breeze. We usually like to be around people who like us, and we subconsciously don't like people who hate us. This is a universal problem for human beings.
For such people who have a deep city, they deeply understand this, the city is actually a double-edged sword, and if you get too close to the people who have the city, they will easily suffer, but if there is no city, we will live very miserably. Guarding against others is not about others, but about protecting yourself from others.
The way to wisdom and dexterity lies in not knowing what is not high. Through understanding and learning about the city, we can be more mature in what we do, which is our aim.
Walking in the world, people will inevitably encounter all kinds of tribulations. Some can shrug their shoulders, others are in a hurry, and they will never be able to overcome the difficulties. The reason why people have these gaps in the face of suffering actually has a lot to do with whether a person has a city or not.
For the rest of your life, everyone will be happy if everything goes well. If you get stuck, you should use your own funds to solve the problem.