What should I do if I am engaged to my boyfriend and meet someone who loves me very much?

Mondo Psychological Updated on 2024-02-21

Xiaoya is a gentle and intelligent girl, she has been in love with her boyfriend Li Hao for five years. They have gone through ups and downs together, from the campus to the society, and have woven many good memories together. Just when everyone thought that they would enter the palace of marriage smoothly, Xiaoya began to hesitate.

Li Hao has always been very good to Xiaoya, and her meticulous care makes her feel warm. However, as time went by, Xiaoya found that her feelings for Li Hao became weaker and weaker, and even sometimes felt a little boring with him. She began to wonder, did she really love Li Hao? Or is it just getting used to his presence?

At this moment, another man appeared in Xiaoya's life - Zhang Qiang. Zhang Qiang is a colleague of Xiaoya's company, he is smart, humorous, and can always make Xiaoya laugh inadvertently. His arrival is like a breath of fresh air, making Xiaoya's world different. His every look, every movement, made her heart beat faster.

Xiaoya fell into a tangle. On the one hand, she didn't want to hurt Li Hao, after all, they had so many good times; On the other hand, she couldn't resist Zhang Qiang's charm, she felt that being with Zhang Qiang was what she really wanted. She began to try to distance herself from Zhang Qiang, but the more she did, the more she missed him. She knew she couldn't go on like this, but she didn't know what to do.

One night, Xiaoya and Zhang Qiang attended a colleague's birthday party together. Under the influence of alcohol, their feelings reached their peak. Xiaoya finally let down all her guards and made their relationship public with Zhang Qiang at the party. At that moment, she felt that she had finally found true love. However, things didn't go the way Xiaoya imagined. When Li Hao learned about their relationship, he was very sad and angry. He felt betrayed and couldn't forgive Xiaoya. And Zhang Qiang did not give her enough security as Xiaoya expected. His life is full of uncertainties and challenges, which makes Xiaoya worry and uneasy.

Xiaoya began to regret her choice. She found that she had lost both Li Hao's stability and warmth, as well as Zhang Qiang's commitment and future. She began to wonder if she really loved Zhang Qiang or if she was just confused by his charm.

In the end, Xiaoya decided to end this chaotic relationship. She realizes that love is not the whole of life, nor is it the solution to all problems*** She needs time to sort out her thoughts and find her original intention.

Editor's Comment:In the face of love, we need to stay sober and rational, and not be easily carried away by feelings. At the same time, we also need to learn to cherish and respect other people's feelings, and not to do things that hurt others because of impulse. Only in this way can we go further and more steadily on the road of love. What do you think about this?

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