Some of them are really hard to talk about for the first time, but they are like imprints in my heart and I can't forget them for a lifetime;
Some of them were in a daze for the first time, but every time I remembered them, I couldn't help but laugh happily;
There are also some firsts, which really hurt to the bottom of my heart, and it seems that it is difficult to let go of that feeling ......
As Shakespeare said, "All beginnings are difficult." The first experience is always very profound, whether it is happy or sad.
However, it is these firsts that make our lives rich and colorful, and let us learn to grow and face various challenges.
Therefore, whether it is good or bad for the first time, it is a precious treasure worth cherishing and remembering!
1.First date.
On a first date, that's a real nerve! Both of them were on an adventure, everything was so new and so unknown.
In order to make a good impression on each other, everyone will desperately dress up and choose topics, for fear of accidentally cooling down the atmosphere. The date locations are also chosen from the left and right, and each place seems to hide some secrets.
Every word and every action is like testing the other party's bottom line and preferences.
However, when it comes to the nth date, it feels completely different. It was as if a window had opened between the two of them, and they could see each other more clearly. Chatting has also become more relaxed and natural, and it is no longer as stressful as the first time.
The date location has also become more casual, and it may be a cozy café or a small corner that both people enjoy. Everyone reminisced about their previous dates together, laughed heartily, and felt like old friends.
At this time, dating is not only about getting to know each other, but also about enjoying the time with each other and creating more happy and warm memories together.
As Shakespeare said: "Love does not look at what is in front of you, but only looks down on all beings and all things in the world." When two people are together, the most important thing is to enjoy the moment and cherish every moment of good time.
2.The first quarrel.
The first time we quarreled, it was really a "cautious" test. Both of them seem to be groping, not knowing that the other party's bottom line is **, and they are afraid that they will accidentally step on the minefield. So I was very careful when I spoke, for fear that if I said something wrong, I would make the other party angry.
After the quarrel, reconciliation is also particularly important, because it is related to how to deal with the conflict in the future. By the time the nth quarrel came, the two of them knew each other better, and they were not so polite.
If you are dissatisfied or angry, just say it directly, and the quarrel may be even more fierce. But in fact, this is not a bad thing, because the reconciliation after every quarrel will make the relationship between the two people closer.
The key is to learn how to communicate well and how to solve problems while respecting the other person.
As the old saying goes, "Noisy and noisy is true love." "Sometimes a quarrel can untie the knots in my heart and make the feelings deeper.
So, every fight is an opportunity to learn and grow, and it is also an opportunity to get to know each other better and become more intimate. As long as it is handled well, quarrels can become a "sweet burden"!
3.First breakup.
You are sad, reluctant, and don't want to let go, and it has even become a topic of discussion for everyone. You feel like life has lost its meaning without him.
You always think that in his heart, you still have a place, even if it's just a small corner, as long as you can be by his side. But you may not realize that when a person is determined to leave, even if you keep his person, you can't keep his heart, let alone get back to his old happiness.
On the contrary, those good memories between you will slowly be worn away.
There are many breakups, and you slowly learn how to deal with these things on your own. When you are sad, you will find a place to cry alone, and when you are tired of crying, you will sleep.
When you wake up, you have to do it as if nothing happened. It's not that you let go all of a sudden, or that you become heartless. Your heart must still be painful.
But you see, there is no one in this world who cannot live without anyone, and the earth will turn without anyone. People, you have to live well. You have to move forward, and time will help you heal slowly.
You've improved a lot compared to the first breakup.
As Shakespeare said, "The best way to heal is time." Give yourself some time and you'll be fine.