In life, we will always encounter some sudden blows, or family changes, or entrepreneurial failures, or cold ridicule, or ...... with a bleak futureWhen you are at a low point in your life, everything that happens around you may be true.
Actor Huang Bo once sighed: "When you were not famous, there were everyone around you, those who were cautious, those who mocked you, those who made you bad, everything, but after becoming famous, I suddenly found that there were good people around me." ”
This is the way it is in this world, when you are successful, you are surrounded by good people, and when you are down, almost no one cares.
"Wine and meat are brothers, how can I see a person in an emergency? ”
Man, that's how realistic it is. Because most people in this world like icing on the cake, there are very few people who can really send charcoal in the snow, and more people are people who fall into the ground.
If a person is at a low point, it is often easier to recognize his own facts. The implication is that if a person is at the peak, everything he encounters is likely to be false and unreal - either caused by his own complacency, or by the compliments of others, thus creating an illusion.
When you have money, relatives and friends surround you, former partners contact you, greet and flatter you with a smile, and hold you with sweet words; If you have no money, your relatives and friends are far away from you, your classmates and friends are avoiding you, laughing at you with your eyebrows, and gossiping about you. You don't know how hypocritical society is until you let reality slap you; You don't know that people's hearts are terrible until you let your so-called friends hurt you nothing.
"People can't teach people, but they can't teach people once. ”
In this rapidly changing world, each of us is struggling to survive. Sometimes, in order to live a better life, we must understand the sophistication of human beings and understand the heat and coldness of the world. It's not apathy, it's maturity.
Sometimes, life will always pour a basin of cold water on us when we are triumphant, and we will be caught off guard. However, in the face of blows and setbacks, we should not fall down, but should stand up straight and not lie down, so that we may be able to usher in the dawn of the willows.
So there are some experiences that you have to go through, some roads that you have to walk, you don't go through them, you don't go through them, you never understand a person.
"Life is warm and cold, not happy with things, not sad with yourself. ”
In this life, there will inevitably be ups and downs, and when people are down, they can best see the warmth and coldness of the world, and who is the person who can really help you. Money can make ghosts grind, but when there is no money, it is difficult to move an inch. The reality is like this, people are not as poor as ghosts, tea is not as light as water, and the world is just like that. Even if it is prosperous for three thousand, it is cloudy and smoke, and there are countless troubles, and it is sunny if you want to open it.
Time is a good thing, let us know that it is good to see people's hearts over time, and to save it for the end. It also allows us to learn to know ourselves warmly, and to know how to behave well. Experience grievances and know sourness, experience beauty and know sweetness, experience hardships and know bitterness, experience helplessness and know spicy, taste all kinds of flavors will naturally see through, see through the world is cold, either look down or see through: those who are bearish become tolerant because they don't care; Those who see through are numb from despair.
"Only when you are down-and-out do you know that people are warm and cold, and when you have no money, you know that the world is hot and cold. ”
People, when they reach a certain age, live with a smile every day with a little bit of pain and a little unspeakable pain.
People with a heart, whether you are there or not, will be missing; Unintentional love, whether you are good or not, is just indifferent. After walking a long way, there is always a realization; Go through a little more so that you can see some people clearly.
Only when you are down-and-out can you know the warmth and coldness of people, there is no one, no money can you know that the world is cold and cold, and there is nothing. Only when you are down, you can understand, how few people are willing to pull you, only when you are the poorest, no matter how good your feelings are, it is difficult to beat reality.
No matter how bumpy and rugged the road of life is, we must learn to rely on ourselves, don't expect too much, there will be more disappointments, and we can only look down.
If nothing happens, I don't know who is near and who is far. People don't taste, I don't know who is strong and who is light. The benefits are endless, and I don't know who gathers and who disperses. People are not poor, and they don't know who is cold and who is warm. If you don't try the water, you don't know which depth is and which is shallow, people don't make friends, and you don't know who is good and who is bad.
For the rest of his life, he will see the world clearly, look down on the warmth and coldness of people, do not treat every bit of enthusiasm badly, and do not please every point of indifference. Belong to your own scenery, never missed; If it's not your own scenery, then you should pass by.