The matchmaker came to Liu's house, and Liu's house was cleaned and tidy, giving people a comfortable feeling. The matchmaker asked Liu about his social security, and Liu answered truthfully that he only had more than 1,000 yuan a month. The matchmaker then asked Liu if he had any other income**, and Liu told the matchmaker that his family still had more than 7 acres of land, and he could collect 8,000 yuan in rent from the land every year. The matchmaker further asked Liu if he had any savings, and Liu said frankly that he had lent 220,000 yuan to a contractor, which is currently being approvedCourtsto pursue it.
At this time, the matchmaker couldn't help but ask Liu why he borrowed so much money to others, and Liu talked eloquently, revealing that he was unwilling to miss any opportunities in front of interests. The matchmaker was amazed by Liu's wit, but at the same time worried that these problems would become blind datesobstacles
The matchmaker went to Yu's home, and she was a person inKindergartenWomen working as dietitians. The matchmaker asked Yu Mou about thisKindergartenHow long has he been working, Yu replied that it has been six or seven years, and his monthly salary is about 3,000 yuan. The matchmaker curiously asked about the reason for Yu's divorce, and Yu said frankly that her ex-husband often beat her, and she couldn't stand it so she filed for divorce. According to her, there was a time when she was beaten so that she couldn't move, but luckily she was nearbyKindergartenThe director and his wife took her in.
The matchmaker sighed at what happened to Yu, and she knew in her heart that Yu's requirements for her future partner would be more stringent.
Under the arrangement of the matchmaker, Liu and Yu met at Liu's house. Liu's size and appearance made Yu feel good, but Yu was taller than him, so she felt that she had more advantages than Liu in terms of size.
The matchmaker watched their conversation and felt the spark between them. The matchmaker asked them about each other's impressions, and Liu felt that Yu's head was similar to his own, and Yu felt that Liu was a little shorter than her. The matchmaker jokingly said that they were taller and taller back to back, and it turned out that Liu was one centimeter taller than Yu. This vignette sparked laughter between them.
They sat down and started chatting, and Liu took the initiative to reveal that he was widowed, and his ex-wife unfortunately fell ill and died. Yu asked curiously how long it had been since he died, and Liu replied that it had been more than ten years. Yu also began to talk about the reason for her divorce, and she couldn't accept her ex-husband's behavior of often beating her. In the process of sharing each other's experiences, the two gradually developed a resonance.
Yu couldn't help but ask Liu if he had itPensions, Liu said frankly that although there is, the amount is not much, only more than 1,000 yuan per month. He also mentioned that his family still has more than 7 acres of land and can receive 8,000 yuan in rent every year. The matchmaker explainedRuralThere are relatively few people who pay social security, and Liu also smiled calmly and said that he and his brother-in-law are the only two people in their village who have paid social security.
After hearing Liu's answer, Yu pulled the matchmaker aside and expressed his doubts to her in a low voice. She thinks it's only 1,000 yuan a monthPensionsToo little for the lives of two people to meet their needs. She thinks she can earn 3,000 yuan a month now, and she has no pension, so the other party'sPensionsAt least it is reasonable to earn more than yourself.
Liu heard Yu's doubts, and he replied seriously that although he only had more than 1,000 yuanPensions, but there are still 7 acres of land to collect rent, which can supplement the family's income. He also mentioned that earning money depends not only on the amount of personal income, but also on how to plan and use it reasonably. He believes that one person's temper and sincerity towards the other party areMarriageThe more important factor is not just money.
The matchmaker also persuaded Yu not to only value money, but to pay attention to the other party's character and attitude towards feelings. She believes that a person can live a happy life if he has a good temper, treats the other party sincerely, and is willing to tolerate the shortcomings of the other party.
For Yu, is she willing to accept only 1,000 yuan per month?PensionsThis is a matter of personal choice. Everybody forMarriagewithEconomyOpinions vary, and some people may pay more attentionEconomywhile some people pay more attention to the matching of feelings and personalities.
When it comes to choosing a partner,EconomyCondition is indeed one of the important considerations, but it is not the only determining factor. Everyone has their own values and pursuits, and some people want to find themEconomyA capable partner, while some people pay more attention to the fit of character and feelings.
In the end, Liu and Yu chose their own paths, and only they know best whether their decision was correct. Either way, hopefully they can find the happiness they really want. Blind dates, after all, are just a way and cannot determine a person's fate and happiness. The important thing is to be able to show yourself authentically during the blind date, communicate honestly, and find the empathy and fit of the other party. Only in this way can it be possible to find a partner who is truly suitable for you and embark on the road of a happy life together.