In 2007,Zhang Jianxia, a 26-year-old daughter-in-law, donated 69% of her liver in order to prolong the life of her father-in-law who was suffering from cancerAfter the operation, she was in pain because of a series of adverse reactions, but she still persevered.
Although everyone in her mother's family strongly opposed it, she still made such a choice, and her actions infected many peoplehas become an outstanding representative of the local filial piety daughter-in-law, and has been nominated for the new twenty-four filial piety, and even her story has been made into a movie and widely circulated.
Zhang Jianxia is a native of Xingtang County, Hebei Province, and was born in Xiguan Village, Longzhou Town in 1982.
After graduating from secondary school, he worked in a unit in Shijiazhuang, and met Wang Liang under the introduction of a friend, because the two were from the same place, so the communication was extremely smooth, and they have always kept in touch, and soon the relationship between the two began to ferment and became a couple.
After getting along for a while, they officially married in 2004.
And Zhang Jianxia also ended her part-time job career and ran a small hotel with her in-laws, her father-in-law and mother-in-law loved her very much, and never said a word of seriousness, treating her as her own family.
She is also very grateful, and often helps her family take the initiative to take care of housework, and the whole family is a harmonious scene.
Although the business of the small inn is not very prosperous, it is more than enough to maintain the daily expenses of a family, so life is quite happy.
In the second year after marriage, Zhang Jianxia gave birth to an heir for the family, the naughty and active little guy was regarded as the pearl of the palm by his father-in-law Wang Zhenlong, and the daughter-in-law's status in this family has been greatly improved, and the family is immersed in laughter, but they don't know that the unfortunate thing is approaching.
In 2007, Wang Zhenlong was sent to the hospital for an examination because he was unwell, and the results were shocking.
51-year-old Wang Zhenlong suffered from liver cancer, and his condition was already extremely serious.
The family's mood is very heavy, but for the sake of Wang Zhenlong's illness, the whole family has already been let go, and they have made up their minds to fight hard to rescue even if they smash the pot and sell iron.
However, there are many problems in front of them, and the cost alone is not a small amount, and they can still think of a way.
But what Wang Zhenlong urgently needs at present is a liver transplant, only then can he have the possibility of continuing his life.
However, ** is a troubling problem, not only does it need to match their blood type, but also a donor has to donate voluntarily, and usually patients have to wait for luck to come.
However, Wang Zhenlong's condition is afraid that he will not be able to wait for that moment, and the only way is that some of his close relatives are willing to donate a part of his liver, so that the operation can be carried out smoothly, but the operation is risky after all, and no one can guarantee whether the donor can return to the normal level that once was.
The family didn't think too much about it, and went to do blood samples and physical examinations, but the results were unsatisfactory, mother-in-law Zhang Shuying's blood type is type A, which can't match her father-in-law's type O blood at all, but even the two sons she gave birth to only inherited her bloodline, so she had no choice but to find another way.
Zhang Shuying went to find relatives who were related to Wang Zhenlong, hoping that someone with a blood type match could lend a hand, and promised a lot of benefits.
However, without exception, they were rejected, they knew very well how much the impact of liver donation on their bodies was, and most of them were doing manual work to make a living from farming, and no one wanted to be helpless. When it comes to body and money, these people undoubtedly choose the former.
Mother-in-law Zhang Shuying returned in vain, and she had no choice but to cry silently in the face of her husband's illness.
Wang Zhenlong himself also saw it, life and death are in the sky. He didn't want his family to spend money in vain for this unavoidable illness, although he could delay it for some time, but he didn't want his wife, children and grandchildren to live a poor life after he left, so he proposed to give up ** and go home to enjoy the last time.
However, at this moment, the daughter-in-law suddenly pulled her mother-in-law Zhang Shuying aside and told her that we still have a chance.
"Or I'll donate my liver to my father-in-law, I have checked my blood type O before, I just need to go for a physical examination, if there is no big problem, I will be eligible."
Mother-in-law Zhang Shuying was very moved when she heard her daughter-in-law's words, but she couldn't choose to do this, it was unfair to her in-laws, and this was her own business, how could she let her daughter-in-law pay so much, plus there was a young son who was more than 2 years old, if there was any accident, how could it be good.
So she decisively rejected her daughter-in-law's kindness:
"Girl, I know what you want, but don't do it. My father-in-law is already old, even if you can survive, you can last a few years, you are still young. And the child is still young and needs to be taken care of, if you have something, what should the family do, and how can we explain it to your parents? It's all up to Providence! ”
However, the daughter-in-law insisted on this, unwilling to give up ** Wang Zhenlong, in desperation, her mother-in-law Zhang Shuying told her father-in-law Wang Zhenlong about the matter, which caused the other party to be angry:
"I don't have to mention this matter again, I can't let my daughter-in-law do such a stupid thing no matter what, I want to live a few years less than let others poke my backbone in the future, if that's the case, what face do I have to face her parents. ”
When the couple was arguing, Zhang Jianxia had already gone for a full body examination by herself, and she soon got the results. All aspects of the body are normal, the blood type is also met, and all the conditions for donation are fully met.
She told her father-in-law the news and made up her mind to do so, although Wang Zhenlong was very reluctant, and she couldn't survive her daughter-in-law's insistence, and Zhang Jianxia told him that there would be no major problems, at most he would be weak for a period of time, and the liver would have a regenerative function, or it would return to its original state in two years.
Father-in-law Wang Zhenlong agreed to this matter with half a doubt, and the whole family was moved by this usually weak woman, and felt more indebted, and vowed to be a hundred times better to her in the future.
Because Wang Zhenlong's condition was already very serious, the doctor had already recommended that the operation be arranged within a month, so everyone did not delay, and after taking a family photo, the final time of the operation was determined.
Before the surgery, the doctor informed her of all the things that could happen and asked her to think about it again, and it was too late to regret it.
After all, a liver transplant is not a full-fledged surgery in nature, and none of the patients with advanced liver cancer have survived for more than five years after receiving a transplant.
Even if the early liver cancer patients receive transplantation, the five-year survival rate is only 60%, although Wang Zhenlong is early, but it is also a way to continue life, and there is a great chance of living for a few more years.
But Zhang Jianxia still chose to donate her liver to save her father-in-law, she couldn't watch her family leave like this, she had her persistence.
In order to maintain the normal function of the donor's body, it is usually recommended to preserve more than 35% of the liver, which can effectively avoid liver failure in the donor, so the donation degree of the three parties is listed as the limit.
But what she didn't expect was that Zhang Jianxia chose to donate 69% of her liver to her father-in-law, which undoubtedly caused a greater burden on her own body. Relatively speaking, it is possible that her father-in-law may be much better after the transplant surgery.
On June 14, 2007, Beijing 301 Hospital performed a liver transplant for the patient, which lasted 9 hours.
When the operation was over, the doctor told them that the operation had gone well and that the transplant had been successful, and the family cried with joy.
After the operation, Zhang Jianxia endured inhuman pain, because the diversion tube was detached from the bile duct, causing bile to flow into the abdominal cavity, and the severe pain made her faint several times.
Fortunately, the doctor found it in time, and an incision was made between her ribs and a diversion tube was placed again, and a large amount of normal saline was injected every day to dilute the bile, and then it was removed through the catheter.
The most unbearable thing is that the place where the surgery is made is just on the nerve line, as if piercing the bone and eating the marrow, and the pain is unbearable. In order to relieve her pain, the doctor could only give her occlusive injections to numb the nerves.
After 14 days in the hospital, and after the situation almost stabilized, Zhang Jianxia was in a hurry to be discharged.
First, because the cost of long-term hospitalization is not low, in order to save costs, I plan to go home to recuperate, and secondly, because I miss my son very much, and I haven't been back to my parents' house for a long time, I still want to go and see.
So she asked her husband to send her back to her parents' house, after all, no one took care of her when she went back to her in-laws' house, and everyone flocked to the hospital to accompany her father-in-law.
After returning to her parents' home, the biological parents looked at their pale daughter and had a premonition that something bad was happening.
Under some questioning, Zhang Jianxia could only tell the old couple about the liver donation. Looking at her daughter's weak appearance now, the reproachful words were swallowed by them stiffly, and now it is a foregone conclusion, and it is useless to say anything more, the top priority is to find a way to take good care of her daughter and let her recover as soon as possible.
After recuperating at her mother's house for a while, she returned to her mother-in-law's house. Because my father-in-law has recovered from his illness and been discharged from the hospital, the family has returned to normal life.
Because the father-in-law's serious illness has consumed all the family's savings, and even owes a lot of debts outside, the entire family trajectory has changed.
But they still see it very openly, if the money is gone, they can earn it again, and if their family is gone, they will be lost forever. Although the days are tight, they are extraordinarily warm.
The father-in-law and mother-in-law are even more grateful to this daughter-in-law, and they have long regarded her as their own biological child, and the first thing that comes to mind is the daughter-in-law.
They didn't publicize this matter, and all the people who knew the details were internal members of the family, so there was no wave.
Once, when Zhang Jianxia was about to return after buying something from the store downstairs, she happened to meet a neighbor, and after a brief conversation with her, she walked home, but the short distance took her a lot of effort, and it took about ten minutes from the first floor to the second floor, and she was so tired that she was sweating profusely, and she had to stop and rest every few steps.
Eventually, with the help of her neighbors, she managed to return home. The neighbor was curious, so he asked about it, and Zhang Jianxia didn't think much about it and told the other party about donating her liver to her father-in-law, but she didn't expect this matter to ferment to what extent.
When the neighbors learned about it, they naturally shared it with their friends, and after spreading the word of ten, ten, and word of mouth, many people knew about it.
Many people envy that Wang Zhenlong's family is a blessing, and he can marry such a good daughter-in-law, I don't know how many blessings his ancestors have accumulated.
Her deeds were widely circulated in the society for a while, and the local ** took into account her family situation and arranged a job for her, although she is not a civil servant, but the treatment and working environment are still very good, which can be said to be very rare in the local area.
In 2008, Zhang Jianxia was named one of the "Top Ten People Who Moved Hebei", and was later included in the "New Twenty-four Filial Piety" by non-governmental groups.
The first selection in Xingtang County"Top Ten Filial Sons" moral modeltime,Zhang Jianxia won the award with an absolute number of votesIn order to promote this spirit of filial piety,Her story has been presented in various forms by operas and literary programs
Later, it was made into a movie"The Great Filial Daughter-in-law".It has been screened more than 100,000 times across the country, causing a lot of social reactions and being loved by audiences in rural areas.
But despite this, Zhang Jianxia's father-in-law still couldn't escape the arrangement of fate, and his daughter-in-law only lasted for three years for her life, but he felt a lot of excitement.
In January 2010, my father-in-law Wang Zhenlong passed away, it is said that it was due to a fungal infection caused by a second liver transplant, and sometimes life is so fragile, even if you try your best, it is only a drop in the bucket.
Someone once asked Zhang Jianxia if she regretted doing this?
Her answer is very firm, she has no hesitation for the sake of her family, and she will not change even if she chooses again.
Later, her younger brother got married, and as a sister-in-law, she directly handed over the small hotel to her younger brother and sister-in-law to take care of, firstly, in order to stabilize her brother-in-law's sense of integration into the family, and secondly, she also wanted to concentrate on her work.
Although her mother's family did not make much statement on this matter, the complaint can still be seen, every time the son-in-law went to their house, he was turned away, although Zhang Jianxia reconciled many times, but never succeeded, so he had to give up.
I can't blame my father-in-law and mother-in-law for having such an attitude, in all fairness, no parent is willing to let their children make such a big sacrifice for their husband's family.
Fortunately, Zhang Jianxia's recovery is in good condition, 3 years after the operation, when ** interviewed her, her liver has recovered to ninety percent of its former level, and experts have also expected that the possibility of full recovery is very low.
But there is no big problem with normal life and work.
Filial piety comes first, as a daughter-in-law, Zhang Jianxia can do this to such a degree is really commendable, and I have never heard of any son-in-law who is willing to sacrifice himself for his mother-in-law or father-in-law, her approach is admirable.
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