Text: Zhou Peng. Love is like weaving a bracelet, with some skills, you can have more new tricks and look better.
No matter what kind of bracelet you knit, if you want to show a more beautiful and advanced look, there must be more exquisite techniques.
Managing love, and a lot of times as well.
Bai Yang said: "Love does not develop logically, so you must always pay attention to its changes. Love is not eternal, so it must be pursued constantly. ”It's easy to fall in love, but it's not easy to stay together. A really smart woman, when she is in love, knows how to "play some tricks" to make a man love you for a longer time.
Here, the so-called means are, in fact, the skills of managing feelings.
I have a girlfriend who has found a very handsome man to be her boyfriend.
Everyone joked about her, telling her to keep an eye on her so that she wouldn't be robbed by others.
She ignored everyone's jokes and continued to live her own way.
In her life, she often plans to go to other places to study, running around all day to do projects. In her own words: "The most meaningful thing in life is to make a lot of money." ”
Many people thought that she would break up with her boyfriend in less than two days after talking like this.
As a result, her boyfriend liked her chic and uninhibited style, and felt from the bottom of his heart that she was a capable and attractive woman, who chased her all day long and spoiled her to the bones.
Love needs to be balanced, and if you are too cold, the relationship will be put on hold; Being too enthusiastic will make men stop cherishing you.
The best way to manage love is not to please, but to learn to invest in yourself.
Yishu said: "Life is short for decades, and the most important thing is to satisfy yourself, not to please others." ”Don't change your life plan for love, and don't give up your goals for anyone easily.
Love is very important, but the feelings that always require you to sacrifice and compromise will not end well.
A woman who understands this truth will not lose the bottom line and principles when managing love, but can manage the marriage for a longer time.
There will always be a run-in period between a man and a woman. Between each other, irreconcilable contradictions may arise.
If you quarrel blindly, talk fiercely with each other, and have a cold war at will, it will only hurt both of you, and there will be no way to solve the problem.
A smart woman, good at empathy, and empathy.
When a man is angry, she can calm down, wait for the man to calm down, and then communicate with him about the pros and cons.
And, when communicating, try to understand his thoughts and know what he is thinking. Be willing to stand in the shoes of a man and think more for him.
Understand each other more, even if the conflict still exists, but at least it will not hurt each other's feelings.
When there is a problem, do not escape, do not intensify the conflict, and use the tenderness of a woman to soothe his heart.
Women, the more empathetic you are, the more empathetic you are, and the easier it will be for men to get along with you.
Even if there is a quarrel or a conflict, it is easier to solve it because of empathy.
In the world of feelings, women often behave very shy and reserved.
However, when you meet someone you love, you must carefully prepare some love words, show your delicate side, and melt his heart little by little.
Zhao Mosheng in "Why Sheng Xiaomo" is a girl who is very good at talking about love.
Since the day she chased He Yichen, she has been talking constantly.
In her eyes, she has always felt that he is the most handsome and talented boy. Every time I see He Yichen, I can't help but praise him and praise him.
Zhao Mosheng failed to run 800 meters, she said to He Yichen: You can stick your ** on my head, maybe then I will have motivation and run faster.
He Yichen couldn't cry or laugh, but he loved this frank, straightforward, innocent and lovely girl.
A woman who knows how to speak love words and sincerely expresses her love will warm a man's heart.
Women love to listen to love words, and so do men.
Often talk to a man, and his defenses will be broken by you little by little, until he accepts you unconditionally, and then can't do without you.
Except for you, any woman around you has become a general.
Women learn to say some high-level love words, and there are thousands of beautiful sentences describing love in poems and songs.
"Intimacy" wrote: "Love in the right way, don't change each other, don't wronged yourself, so that we can all love and be loved as we want." ”Manage feelings, don't be in a hurry to pay, but learn more skills to add fun to men and women.
Let him feel good about you and feel that you are the most special.
A smart woman, who is not flattering, but knows how to leave as if she were leaving, creating a romantic atmosphere.
Don't be an obedient and good woman, but live your own life, let yourself live your own style, and let him love him for a lifetime and be reluctant to let go.
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About the author: Zhou Peng, an emotional writer, takes dreams as horses and words for a living. Carefully build Zhou Peng's meditation classroom, committed to cultivating the mind, improving cognition, and surpassing oneself. Grow together along the way.