Text: Zhou Peng. Love is like the sea, it can accommodate all rivers, love is like the universe, all-encompassing.
True love, with a strong inclusiveness.
People who love you will not stop managing each other's feelings because of some of your small flaws.
Even if there is a gap between the two people, there is love in their hearts, and they will manage it well.
It can be seen whether a person has you in his heart or not. The person who really has you in his heart has two words on him: tolerance.
I have an old classmate who likes to follow the trend and do business. He will do whatever he sees when others make money.
I heard that selling bracelets made money, and he also invested a lot of money to buy them. But he is a layman, he doesn't know the truth at all, and he doesn't know **.
Spent a good price, bought a bunch of rags, and as a result, lost a lot of money.
For this reason, he was depressed and did not dare to see his girlfriend.
His girlfriend scolded him, he thought that the two of them would not be able to get along anymore and were ready to break up.
But unexpectedly, after the girl scolded him, she said that she could give him a chance, as long as he worked down-to-earth, don't think about taking shortcuts all day long, make quick money, you can look at his performance after that, and then decide whether to break up.
He was very happy and moved, and decided that from now on, for the sake of the people who loved him, he would also work hard and make good money.
Someone who truly loves you will give you a chance to correct your mistakes.
When you do something wrong, she will not blindly accuse, nor will she blindly laugh at you or hit you. Instead, it still gives you encouragement and opportunities to grow.
As long as you are willing to change, she will face the future with you and bear the consequences with you.
People who love you, who are reluctant to leave you, will tolerate you again and again, encouraging you to develop in a good direction.
No one is perfect, even if you love someone, you can see a lot of shortcomings in him.
Everyone has a different personality, and their cognition and views on things are also different.
Many times, two people who love each other will also have disagreements sometimes.
However, people who love you will tolerate your shortcomings and accept your imperfections.
Writer Wan Yang said: "The most perfect love is not to meet the most perfect person, but to allow the other party to be embedded in each other's lives in an imperfect state." ”People who have you in their hearts will not blame and complain, but learn to accept your different opinions and habits.
Although I don't approve of it in my heart, I don't force you to change.
When two people disagree, he will communicate with you and make some feasible suggestions. Slowly grinding between two people, you will feel respected and cherished.
He loves you, not just the best of you, but the whole of you.
I won't be disgusted when I see some of your shortcomings. Everyone is not perfect, if you love you as a person, you love everything about you.
Nie Feng in Langya Bang is highly poisonous, covered with white hair, and unable to speak.
He returned to his wife Xia Dong, but he didn't dare to recognize him, and he didn't want his wife to see his embarrassed appearance.
Later, Mei Changsu rescued him and told him that Xia Dong had been missing him.
In the end, the husband and wife recognized each other, and Xia Dong confessed affectionately, no matter what Nie Feng had experienced before, as long as he lived.
She didn't care about Nie Feng's appearance, even if her husband couldn't speak, she could understand what he was thinking.
Loving someone, no matter what changes he has made, what he has experienced in the past, the affection in his heart has always been there, and there will be no wavering in the slightest.
Yu Qiuyu wrote: "I don't have time to participate in your past, and I will accompany you to the end in your future." ”Everyone is a human being, not a god, and they all go down the wrong path or suffer a particularly big setback.
People who really love you will not change their love for you because of your past.
He will only feel sorry for the grievances you have suffered, so he wants to be doubly good to you and let you get more warmth and happiness.
Whatever you've done in the past, you don't care.
To love you, to accept everything you have. He will cherish the time he loves with you from the bottom of his heart and pursue a better future together.
The more people love you, the more they will give you tolerance.
Bai Yang said: "Those who live in marriage live with half open eyes and half closed eyes, there is no perfect man or woman in the world, if the eyes are open for too long, or the mirror is illuminated for too long, I am afraid that even God can find fault." ”In life, who can be without fault. He knows that you are wrong and will not lose his temper with you, but will help you solve the problem.
Knowing that you have a lot of shortcomings, you will make a few jokes, at most joking, but you will not dislike them.
When a person gives you enough tolerance, has no bottom line of principles for you, and supports and trusts you unconditionally, these are deep loves, and you must know how to cherish them.
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About the author: Zhou Peng, an emotional writer, takes dreams as horses and words for a living. Carefully build Zhou Peng's meditation classroom, committed to cultivating the mind, improving cognition, and surpassing oneself. Grow together along the way.