Text: Zhou Peng. Marriage is like a car, carrying the husband and wife through the four seasons of life, through ups and downs.
In the process of managing a marriage, there will be a lot of run-in and tests.
Husband and wife should grow together, bear each other's responsibilities, and always stand with each other.
If there is a lack of communication and communication between each other, they cannot reach a consensus on concepts, and they neglect the management of their feelings, they will face a huge marriage crisis.
The following "three types" of couples are easy to divorce because of a change of heart
Husbands and wives have been in a long distance and have no intersection with each other, and their feelings will gradually become indifferent.
A friend of mine who is a reader shared her story with me.
The husband is a very ambitious person, and soon after the two got married, the husband went to work in other places for three years.
During this time, she lived alone, and went to the hospital alone when she was sick. When I worked overtime until late at night, I took a taxi home alone.
When she encounters something happy, she wants to share it with her husband. However, every time he said that he was busy with work, and he would talk about it later, or he would simply not take **.
And when she was extremely tired and fragile in her heart, hoping that a man could be by her side, he would never be there.
In this way, the long-term distance was consumed, and she calmly filed for divorce from her husband.
She doesn't have any expectations for this marriage, and she doesn't feel the slightest love, and the divorce is a relief for each other.
Couples who live in different places for a long time have no intersection in life and cannot accompany each other, and love will soon wither.
When a person has gone through the bitterness of life and survived the difficulties that no one knows, the partner is irrelevant to him.
Don't think that love can transcend the distance of time and space.
Between husband and wife, if they want to stay together until they are old, only practical companionship and care, and the implementation of love, can make love flow for a long time.
If the husband and wife do not have the same views, there will be countless conflicts and quarrels in life, which will constantly consume each other's feelings.
If you have your own opinions, men and women insist on standing on their own ground, trying to convince each other and get each other to agree with their own ideas.
Then, every quarrel may hurt the foundation of the marriage.
Couples who only quarrel, do not communicate, and do not solve problems will definitely end up in the opposite direction.
In particular, the husband and wife who do not agree with each other and talk about chickens and ducks, quarrel only from their own position, neither of them can understand each other, and no one is willing to make concessions and compromises.
The longer you get along, the stronger the sense of exhaustion and powerlessness will be in both parties' hearts.
Slowly, I don't want to communicate and communicate with my lover anymore, and I don't want to say a word to my lover.
Couples who do not agree with each other can easily get tired of their lover and exhaust their feelings.
In the end, he may meet someone who really understands him outside of marriage, or he may be completely disappointed in his marriage, so he chooses to end each other's marriage.
Blame You for Being Too Beautiful", Yu Jiang relied on his wife's family background and financial support to set up a company, and his wife is the largest shareholder in the company.
The company is getting better and better, but the couple secretly divorced. And because of the involvement of interests, the news of the divorce of the two cannot be announced for the time being.
In front of outsiders, the two are still a loving couple, but behind the scenes, Yu Jiang has already had other women.
And his wife also saw clearly that Yu Jiang was a man who only loved himself, so after he failed in his bet, he took his children abroad.
I have heard such a saying: "Only love, no marriage will burst as easily as a bubble; Only marriage without love will be as easy to get bored as boiled water. ”Couples who come together because of interests, in the end, will definitely choose to part ways because of changes in interests.
If you don't have feelings for each other, you won't be able to stand any tests, and you won't give up your own interests for each other.
Interests can make two people who have no feelings husband and wife, and they can also show each other's most realistic side.
When the interests are no longer there, when the lover has no value, the marriage of each other will also face dissolution.
It can be seen whether the husband and wife will change their minds.
Feelings need two people to manage together. In life, we should give each other warmth and companionship to our lovers, and share the pressure and responsibilities in marriage.
Learn to empathize, take the initiative to consider your lover, and respect his lifestyle and life pursuits.
Treat each other's feelings with heart, cherish his dedication, and let each other accompany each other through the ups and downs of the four seasons.
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About the author: Zhou Peng, an emotional writer, takes dreams as horses and words for a living. Carefully build Zhou Peng's meditation classroom, committed to cultivating the mind, improving cognition, and surpassing oneself. Grow together along the way.