Regarding "poverty-alleviated" marriages: some women think that men are worthy, so they willingly start a poverty-alleviation marriage; Women who believe that marriage should not be alleviated by themselves will not consider starting a poverty-alleviation marriage.
Women who are unwilling to start a poverty-alleviation marriage will naturally not be calculated because they regard marriage as poverty alleviation, and they will naturally not taste the tragedy brought about by it.
And those women who think that men are worth their own efforts and are willing to start poverty-alleviation marriages do not all have a good end.
We do not deny that some people's marriages are very happy, although they are poverty alleviation marriages; And more often than not, the man that a woman once thought was worthy of her own poverty alleviation has become a person who is not worthy of her own poverty alleviation after marriage, so that the marriage will inevitably lead to tragedy.
My husband and I only have one daughter, and we regard her as the pearl of our palms, and we have never suffered the slightest grievance since we were young.
But my daughter was disobedient and talked about a boy from a poor family in the countryside, who did not have a car, a house, and had to pay for his sister's school fees, and I was worried that my daughter would suffer with him.
Whenever I expressed some dissatisfaction with this future son-in-law, my daughter would always pout and look displeased, so we chose to remain silent.
My daughter said she wanted to get married, but we had no choice but to grit our teeth and agree, before my daughter got married, my husband and I did everything we could to buy a house for her with 2.18 million, and I decided to write my name when I bought the house, not because I didn't give it to my daughter, but because I was afraid that she would regret it!
In order to make the life of the newlyweds more comfortable, we have invested another 300,000 yuan to decorate their new houses.
My husband and I went to our new house to buy something, and when we opened the door, we found signs of inhabitation inside, and clothes were still hanging on the balcony.
I thought there was a burglar in the house, and just as we were about to call the police, someone came back, and I looked at it, and my son-in-law's parents were also present, and they greeted us warmly"Mother-in-law, why are you here?
Looking at my mother-in-law's appearance as a hostess, I was angry, but I could only endure it"I didn't say in advance why you guys came here"。
My daughter's future mother-in-law was quite dissatisfied with my words and said with a pulled face"Mother-in-law, what you said is not right, the house that my son bought, it is not natural for us to live in it! And my son is filial, as soon as the house is renovated, he will take me and his father and his sister over, your mother and your daughter can marry my son is her blessing, you look at how well this big house is decorated, my son is handsome and capable or a college student ......"
At this moment, I suddenly realized that our efforts and efforts were actually to make wedding dresses for others.
Looking at the living room of the decorated house, I was separated from a small room, and I looked at it nondescriptly, my brain was straight, but the other party smiled and introduced that the house was bought small, only two rooms, and there were not enough people to live, so I changed it purposely!
I held my breath and immediately dialed my daughter's ** when I went out. The daughter said helplessly on the other end of the **"Mom, I really didn't know they moved here, and Zhang Lei and I (my daughter's boyfriend) got married right away, shouldn't his parents come to live? "
Hearing this, I was even more angry and yelled at my daughter"I have no objection to him taking his parents to the city to enjoy the blessings, provided that he buys a house by himself, what is the house I bought, and I don't agree with this marriage, I don't care who you want to marry, I bought the house, write my name, let them move out today, if they don't move, I will call the police.
Without waiting for my daughter's reply, I hung up the ** directly, as an elder I shouldn't participate in the choice of children, but as a mother, I just don't think about this family business.
The man's father is drunk in addition to gambling, and his mother is even sick, where he sits and can't wait to find someone to help, and there is a younger sister who is studying, these obvious conditions, my daughter is not married to help the poor, since the child is disobedient, then I don't give a cent of money, she wants to suffer then rely on her own ability to live!
I can't control my daughter's marriage, so let it go, whether she marries or suffers, I will never interfere, I figured it out, if I help with everything, she doesn't know how difficult it is to live, I rent out the house now and don't give it to her, see her suffer!
People say, I'm doing this, right?