Although modern society is very open-minded and men and women are gradually equal, the idea that "after a woman marries, she is the other family" still exists.
Therefore, the only daughter of some wealthy families has become the "hunting object" of some "phoenix men". They thought that if they married such a woman, they would inherit everything when their parents died.
Yesterday morning, my husband and I went to the Civil Affairs Bureau, received a divorce certificate, and turned each other into an ex as we wished.
After getting the divorce papers, I went back to our house and rented a house, packed up the rest of my personal belongings, and left without looking back.
When we filed for divorce a month ago, I rented the house.
When I returned to my rented house, looking at my young daughter and looking at the empty house, I felt very lost, not only did I not know where the future of myself and my daughter was, but I also didn't know how to spend the New Year.
I held my phone and looked at my parents' **, hesitating, not knowing whether to call or not. After all, I really don't have the face to see them.
When I got divorced, my ex-husband beat me up, saying that if it weren't for my parents' brains, not only would they not accept him as a son-in-law, but they would also have a son at a young age, our marriage would not have been broken.
Looking at my ex-husband's face distorted to the extreme, I understood that what my parents said was right.
The reason why he wanted to marry me was not because he loved me, but because of my family's family conditions.
Perhaps, in his eyes, the property that my parents have worked hard for decades has long been in his pocket, but he didn't think that my parents would decisively abandon my daughter in order to prevent his calculation from coming true, and choose to give birth at an advanced age so that his plot could not succeed.
I'll start at the beginning! I am 26 years old, and originally, as an only child, I grew up living a carefree life.
My parents were businessmen, and before I was born, they left their rural hometown and came to a coastal city, started their own business from scratch.
In order to work hard for their careers, they have suffered a lot, and they are busy with work every day, and even I don't have time to take care of them.
I remember that when I was a child, I lived with my grandparents and uncle's family, and I often didn't see my parents for ten days and half a month.
With the efforts of my parents for decades, their career has improved greatly, they have made a lot of money, bought a house and a car in a second-tier provincial town, and also allowed me to have a worry-free life.
Maybe I'm too busy and don't have time to have another child, or maybe it's out of guilt for me, although my grandparents have mentioned to my parents more than once the topic of having a second child, hoping that my parents will have another one to inherit the family lineage, but my parents have not agreed, they have always treated me as a little princess, and they have responded to my needs, almost giving whatever they want.
In this way, under the care of my parents and grandparents, I grew up healthy and healthy, lived a step-by-step life, completed my studies, and was admitted to a major university 6 years ago.
When I filled in the college entrance examination volunteer, my parents suggested that I fill in the college not far from home, saying that I would most likely stay in the city where the university is located after graduation, and if it was too far from home, it would not be too good for me to get married in the future, but I wanted to go out and see, so I still chose a university far away from home.
In the second semester of my freshman year, I fell in love and fell in love with my ex-husband, my college classmate.
Before I accepted his confession, he chased me for half a year, that is, he had his eyes on me not long after I entered the school.
I naively thought that he loved me as a person, and he was going to marry him after graduation, but my parents, as businessmen who had been in the mall for many years, had already seen him through.
They were strongly opposed to us being together, but I was determined to be with him, so I chose to marry him at all costs.
His family is poor, with only a few huts, two younger siblings who are in school, and a mother who is bedridden.
There was no way, we had to go out to rent a house, although the days were very hard, but he was very good to me, I think it was worth it.
Until I got pregnant and gave birth to a child, because I had to take care of the child, I couldn't go out to work, so I could only live on his monthly salary of 3,000 yuan, but the rent alone was 1,000 yuan a month, and soon our life was stretched.
My ex-husband began to encourage me to ask my parents for money, for the sake of the child, I had to give up my self-esteem to my mother to ask for money, listening to me crying and telling about the hardships of life, but my mother only said lightly, transfer me 5,000 yuan in a while.
5,000 yuan is only enough for us to spend for a while, my ex-husband said indignantly that my parents are so rich, and they only gave 5,000 yuan, it's too stingy, anyway, your family is yours, and the family property will not be all yours in the future, since it will be yours sooner or later, why don't you give us flowers now?
I listened to my ex-husband's words and felt very uncomfortable, "That's my parents' hard-earned money for a lifetime, and I don't want to gnaw at old age." ”
It's a nice thing to say, I don't want to gnaw at the old, you are so backbone, you go out to make money? "My ex-husband scolded me.
I didn't care about him anymore, and it didn't take long for the child to be hospitalized with pneumonia, I had no money in hand, and my ex-husband hadn't paid his salary yet, so I had to call my mother again to ask for money.
My mother happily transferred 10,000 yuan to me and asked me to treat the child first, but she said that this was the last time to transfer money to me.
Because just a few days ago, my mother gave birth to a younger brother for me, and my mother said that my brother will have a lot of expenses for studying and marrying a daughter-in-law in the future, so he can't take care of me, anyway, I have a husband, and I can't rely on them for everything, so I can do it myself in the future.
I was shocked when I heard my mother's words, and I thought that my parents were just angry that I was disobedient and married away, and they would definitely forgive me afterwards.
I didn't expect them to give birth to a son, which is a complete abandonment of me.
When my ex-husband heard the news, he scolded my parents even more, saying that they were old clam and pearls, both in their 40s, and they still had children.
Since then, my ex-husband's attitude towards me has become worse and worse, beating and scolding, and in the end, I don't even give my living expenses.
In his words, what is the use of marrying me? There is no benefit at all, and he eats and drinks and spends his money.
It was also at this time that I finally saw his true colors, saw through his wolf ambitions, he came for my parents' money, and I finally understood my parents' hard work, but it was too late...