In life, the people who accompany us the longest should be friends in addition to family.
Cicero once said, "Friend, double the happiness and halve the sadness." ”
I think so. True friends who make us better!
In this life, people can not soar, but they must be accompanied by friends who know each other.
The husband's hair was small, so he left, only forty-five years old, leaving a pair of helpless children, a grief-stricken wife, and a pair of white-haired people to send black-haired parents.
I remember that back then, my husband proposed to my family, and my parents were not optimistic about this marriage, because my husband's family was poor, and my parents asked for a bride price of 180,000 yuan, intending to make my husband retreat, which is already sky-high in our local area.
In order to marry me, my husband was so worried that his hair was gray, and he had no way to borrow money, so he could only borrow wine to drown his sorrows, and he looked down in his eyes and hurt in his heart, so he took out 100,000 yuan without hesitation, and my husband made up for it, and finally persuaded my parents to marry me back home.
I asked my husband where the money came from, and my husband told me truthfully, and he was full of emotion, saying that he was lucky to have such a brother who was kind-hearted.
When he gave money to his husband, he smiled and said that this was his wedding money for his brother, and he didn't have to pay it back.
But my husband knew that Fa Xiao was also a long-distance driver, and his life was not rich, and he had just taken out a loan to buy a truck, and asked him where the money came from, but he just shook his head and refused to say.
The husband insisted on writing an IOU and stuffed it into his bag. He never mentioned it in front of others, nor did he press us to return the money in front of us, and we told him that if he said a word, we could pay him back at any time.
But he shirked it every time, and joked that business has been good in recent years, and it is not bad for this money, you two are just starting out, and there are many places to spend money, so use it!
But why are good people always not rewarded? Maybe he's a little more generous than we are, but we've always had it in our hearts.
I want to wait until we get better and then give him the money back.
Not long ago, we also had dinner together, seeing that he was pale, my husband asked him what was wrong, he just shook his head, drank a big sip of wine, and my husband mentioned the matter of repaying the money, he said let's not worry, said Xiaoliang (is my son) is going to kindergarten, the private cost is high, let's choose one for him, I didn't expect that only a month later, it was separated by yin and yang.
At my friend's funeral, my husband and I burst into tears, and my sister-in-law was crying so hard that she needed someone to help her to thank her guests. Fa Xiao's parents were so grief-stricken that they fainted several times.
I just learned from my sister-in-law that the 100,000 yuan was originally borrowed by her from her mother's family, and it was originally used to repay the car loan.
I also learned from my younger brother that in fact, three months ago, my friend was too tired to drive, hit someone, and lost 500,000 yuan, although others did not urge him, but he didn't want to go, so he worked three jobs to pay back, and as a result, he was tired and ......had a problem
Hearing this, our hearts are like knives, no one's money comes in vain, friends are affectionate, although we say to pay back, but in our hearts may be a bit of a fluke, compared to friends even if they encounter misfortune and do not mention to us to repay the money, we are really ashamed!
My husband and I discussed and gave the 150,000 yuan we had saved, 100,000 yuan to my sister-in-law, and 50,000 yuan to my parents, which was the last bit of thought we could do.........May he rest in peace in heaven.