There are often young people who complain that the current Spring Festival Gala sketches have lost the core of comedy works in order to pursue "educational effects". Being "beaten by society" every day throughout the year, can't you relax during the New Year, do you still need to be educated?Many people are busy with work and rarely have the opportunity to calm down and appreciate the works of art, let alone reflect on their words and deeds. It is like rushing to hurry with your head down, but you don't notice the scenery on the road, and even take a detour because of blindness. This year's CCTV Spring Festival Gala sketch has made parents across the country be "educated", and many people have seen their own shadows and had an epiphany from it.
Before the Spring Festival Gala started, netizens from all over the country were "betting on the topic", subjects.
Third, the stalk of making dumplings makes people cry and laugh. I didn't expect that when the answer was revealed, it still broke the defense, fortunately, there were no dumplings at the party, but I saw a familiar show "Can't Open My Mouth".
The show was once a classic in the "Annual Comedy Contest".At that time, some netizens said that the idea and style of the work were very suitable for the Spring Festival Gala, but they didn't expect it to become a prophecy, and netizens called him a prophet。It's just that the works that have been acted, and then getting the Spring Festival Gala will inevitably be a little suspicious of fried cold rice, is there really no better work?
Most of the people who have watched the previous version are young people, or a minority, most of them haven't seen the full version, only watched the Spring Festival Gala version, parents thought it was funny at first, how to praise the child for embarrassing the old father like this? But when they saw that their son couldn't open his mouth like his father before leaving, the parents couldn't laugh, isn't this the current situation of many contemporary Chinese families?
If the life is to live the child" said the voice of many parents, the most common topic to talk about with relatives and friends is the child, and they are full of praise when they go to the **, and they change their faces when they go home. No matter how good the children's test results are, they will not boast a word, for fear that they will be proud, and students will be particularly frustrated, and even use hard work to please their parents, and the praise of the whole world is not as good as the recognition of parents
Attentive netizens found that there was an audience member at the Spring Festival Gala with a heavy expression, which was incompatible with the relaxed atmosphere of the people around him, and he felt that he was about to cry, and there was a high probability that he was such a strict father image at home. I rarely praise my children, which leads to tension in the parent-child relationship, and I regret it now when I think about it.
Chinese parents are accustomed to stick education, they are beaten and scolded for doing something wrong, and they are brushed aside for doing good deeds or achieving good grades. Parents feel that this is a sign of modesty, but in fact, it will subtly make students lose their ability to express love, and even lack a sense of security in their hearts.
Praise education is nothing more than at the right timeParents give their children affirmation in a timely manner, which can build self-confidence and make the child's personality more cheerful and positive。Not only will you not be proud, but you will also feel a sense of accomplishment in your studies, which will stimulate internal motivation.
Students who are often complimented usually have higher emotional intelligenceThey have love in their hearts, and they will love themselves and others more, they are very popular in school, and they are more liked by teachers, and they are more likely to be favored by leaders in society.
However, parents should also know how to grasp the scale, not to praise excessively, let alone stay on the surface, not to say that you are awesome and other simple sentences, but to concretize praise and praise every good action of students. If the praise is too much or too superficial, it will produce language fatigue, and you will no longer take it to heart, and you will not be happy anymore, but feel very embarrassed.
It can already be seen from "Can't Open Your Mouth" that parents are reluctant to praise their children, and their sons don't know how to open their mouths when they want to give gifts to their fathers. This has proven the negative impact of stick education, if parents are not willing to have such an embarrassing situation, they must lead by exampleFirst of all, adjust your own educational philosophy, stop clinging to the old ideas of the past, but learn scientific education methods.
Parents and teachers should not be stingy with praising students' words and actions, sometimes a little red flower is worth a thousand words。A warm hug is more powerful than a stick. When students grow up in such an environment, they can be more confident and independent, and they will be more comfortable in society in the future, and they can adapt to the new environment.
Parents praise their students, and students can learn how to give back to their parents. It's not that many students don't know how to be grateful, they just don't know how to express it. Such students lack a sense of responsibility when they grow up, and even have a tendency to gnaw at the elderly. The praise of parents and children can improve the family happiness index.
The author believes that although such a sketch did not achieve the effect of hilariousness, it also fully reflected realityLaughing can cause reflection, even change people's lifestyles, and it's likely that some people's lives will be changed as well.
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