Peaceful and auspicious New Year's Eve is the last month of the year, commonly known as "the end of the year", but also the month of saying goodbye to the old and welcoming the new, so it is also called "polar moon", "more than the moon", in order to be able to have more than one year in the coming year, the wax moon has a lot of exquisiteness, in ancient times, the wax moon is the month of sacrifice, because the lunar calendar is cold in December, the ancients can only obtain sacrificial items through hunting, so "wax" through the fake "hunting", Du Fu "wax day" cloud: "wax daily warm year is still far away, this year's wax day freeze is completely eliminated", It was only in the Qin Dynasty that the twelfth lunar month was truly set as the wax month, and it has been used to this day.
Due to the handover of the new wax moon, many people in ancient times liked to summarize what happened in the wax month, and at the same time look forward to the next year, so as to be able to find the shortcomings, and better seek a happy life in the coming year, as the old saying goes, into the wax moon is the year, the wax moon has a good beginning, auspicious wishes are not sorrowful, so the folk in the wax moon have a lot of exquisiteness, the old saying "into the wax moon door, 6 things do not do", do it will affect the year, understand.
1. Don't lend money to others and don't lend money to others
Wax moon is the last month before the Spring Festival, this month to prepare the New Year's things, the cost is relatively large, some people may come to borrow money, if it is other months, borrow money will also borrow, but this month can not borrow money, because the month of wax is the month of praying for the coming year, this time to lend money, it is equivalent to lending blessings to others, belonging to the outflow of wealth, the blessing of their own family in the coming year can be less, at the same time Wax Moon does not look for others to borrow money, borrow money from others, meaning that the coming year will depend on others.
2. Don't build a house
Building a house is a major event in life, it not only costs a lot of money, but also needs to spend a lot of time and energy to design and build, the month of Layue is busy preparing for the month of the New Year, it is difficult to squeeze out enough time to manage, and finally the house may have a lot of dissatisfaction after completion, at the same time, the moon is cold and frozen, it is very difficult to dig the soil, and the objects have the characteristics of thermal expansion and contraction, and the cold month to build a house is not conducive to the stability of the house.
3. Don't move
Moving is a major event in the family, for ordinary families is to change the place to live, because to the month of the month is about to celebrate the New Year, this time to move, will cause the Spring Festival relatives to visit the problem of not finding the door, at the same time in the month of the month of the stove also sacrificed to the stove prince, this time to move, equivalent to the stove prince displaced, is disrespectful to the stove prince, the coming year may be unlucky.
Fourth, do not get married
Marriage is a major event in life, and the congratulations of relatives and friends will make marriage have a good meaning, but everyone is preparing for the New Year's in the lunar month, and not so many people are drawn over, which invisibly reduces the festive atmosphere, and the folk have the saying of "not marrying, not deciding", which means that the first month of marrying a daughter-in-law is the main in-law, and the main of the engagement in the lunar month is defeating the in-law's family, so the lunar month is not married.
5. Don't quarrel
Wax moon is the month of joyful welcome to the New Year, everyone is full of joy to prepare the New Year's goods, this month legend of the heavenly gods will also go down to the earth to inspect the people's feelings, if you find who quarrels, you will write a report to the Jade Emperor, the coming year can also touch the head, at the same time is about to celebrate the New Year, because the quarrel affects the mood, the Spring Festival will also be unpleasant.
6. No debts
It is natural to repay debts, but some people just don't pay them back, but if they don't pay it back before the wax month, they must pay off the money they owe that year, which means that the bad luck of the year will be cleared, and there will be no money owed in the coming year, so for those who owe money, it is best to pay off the money owed this month.
In short, the wax moon is a very important month of the year, there are many folk customs, in order to have a good meaning in the coming year, this month has a lot of exquisiteness, the old saying "into the wax moon gate, 6 things do not do", do not affect the next year, "six things" is not to lend money to others do not lend money to others, do not build a house, do not move, do not quarrel, do not owe debts, meaning that the coming year is blessed, people are prosperous.
Summary: Wax moon is the end of the year, but also the prelude to welcome the Spring Festival, the ancients attached great importance to this month, there are many customs, such as the twenty-third month of the month of the stove, the twenty-fourth month of the month of the dust, the twenty-fifth month of the month to send the god of the stove, etc., these customs are meant to live a better life in the coming year, so the month of the month to be cautious in words and deeds, the above six things do not do, the coming year auspicious wishes are not sorrowful