Bai Jingqi has intersected with four women in his life, which is fully demonstrated in "Mansion Gate".
There has always been a constant debate about "who Bai Jingqi loves the most among these four women".
Today we will use Bai Jingqi's different names for them to ** his true attitude.
01, Huang Chun'er
Jing Qi and Huang Chun'er have a deep friendship since childhood.
Huang Chun'er let Jing Qi experience many firsts in life.
Attracted to a girl for the first time, and acting as a husband and father for the first time ......
Therefore, when Jing Qi and Huang Chun'er are together, he will affectionately call her "Chun'er".
In front of Yufen and Yang Jiuhong, whenever he talked about Huang Chun'er, he always called her "my love".
The term "daughter-in-law" is used in the northern region to affectionately address the wife, highlighting the intimacy and warmth of the relationship.
This intimacy is not just love, it also contains other emotions between Bai Jingqi and Huang Chun'er.
In a long period of time together, it is cultivated by tacit understanding, trust and a sense of dependence.
Jing Qi deliberately took Huang Chun'er over to take care of the old lady, just like when the second grandmother was in poor health later in the play.
On this crucial issue, Jing Qi trusts Huang Chun'er.
Huang Chun'er's respect and tolerance for Jing Qi are consistent with this.
From the beginning to the end of the episode, Huang Chun'er has always used "Jing Qi" to refer to her husband.
The relative equality between them is displayed, and at the same time, it also shows Huang Chun'er's dignity and self-respect as the main room.
02, nine red poplars.
Some people believe that Bai Jingqi's love for Yang Jiuhong is more than that for Huang Chun'er.
In my mind, his desire for Jiuhong is more about enjoying beauty and keeping it for himself.
Back then, Bai Jingqi met Yang Jiuhong for the first time on the stairs of the restaurant, he was overwhelmed by her beauty, and couldn't help blurting out: "She is simply my destined enemy!" ”
Bai Jingqi showed his strong desire to conquer Yang Jiuhong, which shows the deep grievances and hatred between the two.
When Yang Jiuhong actually married Jing Qi, especially after they moved from Jinan to Beijing, Jing Qi usually referred to her as "Jiuhong".
When they quarrel or when Jiuhong is old, Bai Jingqi will also call her "aunt".
Yang Jiuhong's name for Bai Jingqi is even more fascinating.
He and Huang Chun'er usually refer to him as "Jing Qi", and this situation occupies most of the time.
It is sometimes referred to as the "Seventh Master" or "Seventh Master".
When Jing Qi needs help, she respectfully addresses him as "grandpa".
From the way the two call each other, it is clear that Bai Jingqi's attitude towards Yang Jiuhong used to be "favored", but later became "indifferent".
Such a change is not only because of "color decay and love relaxation", but also because Jiuhong's attitude towards dealing with Jiali and Qiqi in the later period is almost crazy, and even more so in treating Huaihua, which makes Bai Jingqi lose his good impression of her.
Jing Qi called Yang Jiuhong "Seventh Master", "Seventh Master", and "Grandpa", implying that in this relationship, although Yang Jiuhong behaved strongly, she always positioned herself as the weak party.
From the outset, she intends to provide emotional satisfaction to the other party through her charming appearance and clever tongue, in exchange for a higher social status and a more stable life than when she was in Changchun Garden.
If you change it, maybe only Yang Jiuhong knows it.
03. Golden locust flowers.
Many people think that Bai Jingqi does not have a deep affection for Huaihua.
Not exactly.
When the second grandmother was still alive, her two favorite girls were Xiangxiu and Huaihua.
The appearance and character of the acacia flower are clearly endearing.
Before Huaihua became a "little aunt and grandmother", Bai Jingqi didn't find her annoying.
Under the instructions of the second grandmother, Huaihua chatted very happily with Jingqi when she sent snuff to Bai Jingqi.
Huaihua later became Jing Qi's concubine, and Jing Qi did not treat her badly.
Of course, Jing Qi's enthusiasm for Huaihua is now a little bland compared to his initial enthusiasm for Yang Jiuhong.
However, when comparing the young young locust flowers and the nine reds of the half-aged in the same season, the locust flowers still have a chance of winning.
Even if Jing Qi entered the Nine Red Room many times, he rarely saw the acacia flower, so why not?
Almost every time he entered the Jiuhong Room, Jing Qi exchanged the few chips that Jiuhong had left.
Jing Qi, who was willing, entered the Huaihua house and enjoyed it to the fullest.
The reason why Jiuhong offered to go to Guanwai to buy medicinal herbs was because she realized that her knowledge and skills were limited.
Jiuhong felt that Huaihua was a threat to her, so she spared no effort to torture Huaihua, and even wanted to get rid of her.
When Huaihua was in a difficult situation, Bai Jingqi was actually secretly supporting her.
Take, for example, the "white rice porridge" incident.
In the bitterly cold weather, Yang Jiuhong insisted on bringing the acacia flowers to the kitchen to boil purple rice porridge.
Jing Qi still loves Huaihua during her illness, and she keeps saying that white rice porridge is very good, and there is no need to bother.
Huaihua was angry with Jiuhong because she kept calling her "girl".
Jing Qi originally wanted to just say a few words about Huaihua, but Jiuhong kept pestering and even used death to persecute her, while Huaihua stubbornly neither apologized nor left, and stood there bluntly and stubbornly. Jing Qi hit her in a fit of rage.
Wang Xiguang planned to use the incident of Huaihua hanging herself as the theme to send Jing Qi to prison.
Jing Qi said to his cousin, "I should bear the responsibility of being imprisoned because of that girl Huaihua." ”
I think that Jing Qi called Huaihua "Huaihua's girl" not only because she had been a girl for the old lady before, but also because there was a layer of affection in it.
Jing Qi often referred to her as "Huaihua" and "Little Aunt" when she was alive.
Huaihua called Jing Qi very well, calling him "Seven Masters".
It can be seen that although these two people are shoehorned together by the old lady, their relationship is not as passionate as "free love".
Jing Qi felt more guilty about her in addition to the love between men and women, especially after Huaihua's death, but the affection existed.
Bai Jingqi fell in love with Xiangxiu at first sight.
When they first met, Bai Jingqi noticed that Xiangxiu's eyes were completely different from when he looked at other girls such as Huaihua and others.
After Xiangxiu heard that the middle-aged man in front of her was the Seventh Master, she also had a good impression of him.
Xiangxiu was supposed to be sent home, but Jingqi decided to let her stay in the new house, even though the second grandmother had died.
Jing Qi has long been in his heart, and this move has been clearly manifested.
A girl can ask the master to buy real estate for her, which is not a great skill.
People like Xiangxiu have been directly promoted from the status of "girl" to the "seventh grandmother" of the mansion, which is really not an easy thing.
Why would Bai Jingqi agree to Xiangxiu's request and accept her remarriage?
They were lovers at first, and later became husband and wife, but they were always confidants, because Bai Jingqi and Xiangxiu's three views completely matched.
Xiangxiu went to accompany Bai Jingqi when he was detained.
The two had the following conversation on this topic:
This makes everyone happy, but I am an exception and would rather not participate!
Why are they happy?
Everyone is unhappy, but I am the only one who is happy. Alas, I'll have to be happy!
They are self-inflicted, and they should be unhappy! Who has control over them?
These sentences may seem like just small talk on the surface, but they actually reveal a person's basic character and core values.
They are consistent in their core values, and this tacit understanding is something that Bai Jingqi and the three women before have not experienced.
Secondly, the reasons why Bai Jingqi married Xiangxiu are:
His old Bai Jingqi could no longer support the gate of the mansion alone.
He urgently needs an assistant!
Look at these "filial sons and grandsons" in the Bai family, they are either indulged in pleasures, mediocre and inactive, or absent-minded and busy with revolution all day long.
After Bai Jingqi went to prison, Xiangxiu was able to serve him closely, and he could also run back and forth to solve Wang Xiguang's problem.
Whether it is for Bai Jingqi or the mansion gate, it will bring benefits to Xiangxiu to the top position.
Bai Jingqi also realized that Xiangxiu did not marry him purely for purpose like Huang Chun.
What she longs for is not only to have him as a person, but also to have a sincere feeling, and even more to the status.
Therefore, since Xiangxiu and Bai Jingqi got married, the scene of entertaining guests began in the first part, and continued until the second part, in front of the Japanese, Bai Jingqi always called Xiangxiu "my wife".
Compared with the original title of "daughter-in-law", the title "wife" has less intimacy, but more of a symbol of status and power.
Bai Jingqi gave Xiangxiu status and power, which made her a great deterrent to Yang Jiuhong.
Since she became a "wife", Yang Jiuhong's female competitive mentality has disappeared ......
It seems that Bai Jingqi has four women in his life, Huang Chun'er is his first love and virtuous wife, and there is no one to replace; Yang Jiuhong is a hot lover; Huaihua is a virtuous and virtuous concubine worthy of pity; And Xiangxiu is a bosom friend, a partner, and a comrade-in-arms who fights side by side!