Wen Ye Feifei YFF
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Extramarital affairs are not true love, men and women take what they need, and this kind of relationship is difficult to last.
Perhaps, when men and women first start together, they feel very fresh, and they will pretend to be in love, so they are often tired of being together.
However, when the relationship has lasted for a long time and the lover is tired of the relationship, it is difficult for them to continue to invest in the relationship, but find ways to get out of the relationship.
At this time, they will become calculating, do not want to give, and do not want to get tired of being together, and they will also seem absent-minded about physical contact, and even lose their enthusiasm completely.
In this way, the relationship will gradually become indifferent, and eventually cut off until the two sides do not disturb each other, and they will forget each other in the rivers and lakes, which is very cruel.
So, how can you tell if an affair is broken? Take a look at the following 3 details to see at a glance
At the beginning of an extramarital affair, lovers will definitely be in frequent contact with each other, hoping to get tired of being together all the time.
At this time, they will often send messages, hit **, chat as long as they are free, and play ambiguous.
They crave to understand each other's lives and feelings, and they are more greedy for that kind of ambiguous pleasure, which is also an important means of maintaining a relationship.
However, when the lover is out of love and decides to end the relationship, they usually stop contacting.
Whether both parties feel the need to continue the relationship, or realize that the relationship has taken an impact on their lives, they need to withdraw from it in time.
As a result, the frequency of contact between them is becoming less and less, no longer sending messages, no longer calling **, and no longer wanting to meet.
Gradually, the two people begin to disconnect, there is no longer any contact, the relationship is cold and estranged, and eventually the relationship will end quietly.
So,If you notice that your lover has suddenly stopped contacting you and you are unable to reach them by any means, it is likely a sign of ending an affair.
In this case, it is better not to ask too much or dwell on it, and it is better to let go as soon as possible to avoid more harm in the future.
Extramarital affairs, in essence, are the emotional needs of men and women, and they are the dewy joy of a temporary union.
Therefore, physical contact is usually an important way to maintain an extramarital affair, and both parties have a sense of freshness and naturally want to snuggle together.
In any extramarital affair, lovers usually express their emotions by hugging, kissing, or having an intimate relationship.
As long as there is still freshness on both sides, they will not be separated, and they will always think about each other, so as to take the opportunity to go out on a date and solve their emotional desires.
However, when the novelty between lovers wears off and they don't want to develop a relationship, they will refuse any form of physical contact and are no longer willing to make out with you.
It's a dewy relationship in itself, and since I've tasted it and lost interest, I naturally don't want to be intimate.
As a result, they will deliberately avoid each other, never want to hug each other again, let alone have intimate contact, and the relationship will soon be cold.
So,Between lovers, the beginning of refusal to be intimate is often a sign of the end of the relationship
The lover expresses disgust or rejection at your physical contact, never sees you again, always avoids you, and the relationship will inevitably collapse.
Once the affair is over, the lover will become very ruthless, and there is no need to entangle, wake up as soon as possible to avoid physical and mental harm.
In extramarital affairs, lovers and relationships, they are usually willing to give time and energy to each other to meet each other's needs and desires.
Because, they want to keep the relationship intimate and stable so that emotional needs can be easily addressed.
However, when men and women in extramarital affairs begin to become calculating and unwilling to pay for each other anymore, it means that the relationship is going to end.
At this time, both parties will not pay, whether it is money or material, they will be particularly careful, and even both sides will start to calculate and strive for their own interests.
Whether it's the daily necessities or the difficulties you are facing, your lover will turn a blind eye and will not spend a penny more for you.
So, if you find a lover and start ignoring your requests or needs and never giving again, you should understand that the relationship is coming to an end.
Any extramarital affair, as long as the lovers refuse to give, is a manifestation of a broken relationship, and there is no need to be entangled.
Ye Feifei YFF emotional message:
To sum up, to judge whether the extramarital affair is broken, look at these 3 details to know:
The lover was completely disconnected and no longer in touch; The lover refuses physical contact and no longer makes affection; The lover becomes calculating and no longer pays for the other person.
In fact, in extramarital affairs, no matter how much true love there is, it is just playing ambiguous, greedy for temporary freshness and pleasure.
This kind of relationship will not see the light of day, nor will it stand the test, and it will collapse sooner or later.
I hope that men and women in reality can recognize the cruel reality of extramarital affairs and don't covet this abnormal relationship.
At any time, we must take the initiative to refuse extramarital affairs and manage our marriage with heart, which is the vision that adults should have.
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