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There was never a rest of the worries, it was just a difference in choice.
Active selection, vs. passive selection.
There are so many options in life, such as ingredients in the kitchen.
Tomatoes never worry about finding a mate, watching the brisket dance with potatoes,
The eggs and green peppers hugged each other, and it never panicked.
However,Once it chooses to be single, it has a new attitude towards life.
Life may put obstacles in its way and mold it into ketchupBut it is never annoyed, not angry, not panicked, not afraid.
One day, it meets fries, pasta, slices of bread and hot, dry-fried tenderloin.
A person who chooses on his own initiative is able to take control of his own destinyEven if life divides it into many parts, it can still add a little sugar to itself.
However, we are more concerned about those who have made passive choices, how will their lives unfold?
Their biggest problem is that they don't know how to choose.
Just like the small coriander, it has no chance of choosing and is casually paired with chicken or grilled fish.
It's hard to find its value.
If Parsley decides to find a partner to spend a lifetime with
It should be brave enough to explore the other ingredients in the fridgeAsk Tofu if you'd like to venture with it.
However,It hesitated, hesitated, missedHot pot dipping sauce, mutton soup.
One day, Shredded Meat invites it to a spicy party, and its first reaction is to feel inferior and feel unworthy.
How did it become the last piece of food on the board?
It doesn't know how to fit into other people's lives, whether it's cold or hotIt's everyone else who is lively, and it's just a random mix before it comes out of the pot.
However, one day, it understands that its mission is to decorate.
As a result, it became an accent for spicy beefIt adds freshness to the cucumber and a green crisp to the chicken gizzard.
It no longer tries to please those who don't like it, and it is no longer swayed by the opinions of others.
It has become a favorite of spicy crabs
The stubbornness of beef noodles, the shyness of fresh meat wontons.
Its presence, whether eaten or not, brings an appetite to people.
None of the dishes on the board will be left, they just haven't found the right match for a while.
However, why do you have to match it?
Corn doesn't exist for pork rib soup and is delicious on its own.
Green onions are born with a unique taste
It doesn't change itself to cater to the bean paste.
There are many kinds of life, and each one is worth cherishing.
Only living in the expectations of others is the most helpless choice.
Please believe that when you stop pleasing othersYour world won't get worse, it'll be better.
When you feel oppressed and exhausted in a relationship, listen to the voice of that gentle child within.
If it says it doesn't like it, let it go.
It's because the other party doesn't deserve your good, that's why you want to escape.
You get a very clear sense that there is something strange about this relationshipIt makes you doubt yourself, deny yourself, and lose your self-esteem.
Slowly, you start to lose sight of yourself.
You get scared, so start pleasing people.
Every time you flatter, you feel like you're there.
However, love should be based on mutual respect rather than exchange.
When you squeeze yourself for recognition, satisfaction, or respect, this sense of worth is very low.
The most important thing in maintaining a relationship is to be able to control one's emotions.
If you don't dare to say no to someone because you're afraid of their eyesThen this is the biggest negation of that gentle child in you.
Why can someone else decide how happy you are?
You have to be mindful of how you can't help but please othersAnd ask yourself in that moment: What are you drawing? Are you happy?
Even if you get what you want at that moment, how long can you be happy?
Don't deceive yourself with illusions
I think that kind of giving is in exchange for happiness, respect or attention.
Actually, at the moment when you bow your head,The gentle child inside you is gone.
Whether it's friendship or love, when you're with someone,If the first feeling is inferiority,
Then you should take out the last lollipop on your body.
The person who likes you will be reluctant to let you be empty-handed, and he will hand you a roasted sweet potato.
Even if you don't have a lollipop, he'll break the roasted sweet potato in half.
You should understand that feeling of being cherished is because of some shining quality in you.
Attracted him not because of the stick in your hand for a long time
Hesitant to give out lollipops.
You're just a lollipop
You can't be generous to those who don't like you.
You look down to see the road, tie your shoes, or walk where you want to go.
Instead of feeling like you're a head lower than others
What do you want it to do if you need to bow your head to maintain the relationship?
It's not good for the cervical spine, sometimes you lower your head for a long time, the more you think.
I don't deserve the sweet and sour fish in front of me and the moon in the evening.
So, if the relationship that makes you feel inferior
If you want to find a way to keep or poke at your weakness, don't suspect that love is wrongTrue love must make you feel more confident
The two of them shine brighter than the stars at night.
Follow and she'll be tempted for you.
To grasp a man's heart, just keep these three words in mind.