The New Year check-in is off to a good start
In the process of interpersonal communication,We often emphasize that sincerity is exchanged for sincerity
But also be vigilant"Affection is shallow, words are deep".Misunderstandings.
Some people, as soon as they meet each other, show themselves to others without reservation;
Others mistakenly believe that
By sharing personal privacy, you can gain deep trust and lasting friendships with each other.
However, it is easy to talk too much in interpersonal communication, and too early exposure can lead to relationship breakdown.
Words must be in the middle, for wisdom; Silence at the right time is also wisdom.
A truly wise person knows how to remain silent when appropriateEven in the face of close friends, the following three types of things will not be easily revealed.
In social situationsWealth is often a topic of great concern.
However, people are usually cautious and low-key about their wealth and are reluctant to reveal it easily.
Although sometimes in order to show confidence or find common topics,We may talk about our wealth, but this behavior is not always wise.
Talking about one's wealth can easily arouse envy or envy from others.
Because everyone's wealth situation is differentThis discrepancy can cause others to feel unfair or unbalanced.
Some people may be dissatisfied with your vast wealthOthers may express contempt for your relative poverty.
These mixed emotions can ruin the friendly relationship between you and make communication subtle and strained.
In addition, talking about your wealth can also reveal your personal privacy.
Wealth status is often closely linked to our lifestyle, values, etc.
When you inadvertently reveal your wealth,You are actually showing others your lifestyle and values as well.
This can put you in an awkward situation and may even be exploited or attacked by others.
So, when talking to people,We should be cautious and avoid talking about our wealth.
It's not just about protecting your own privacy, it's also about respecting others.
By changing the subject, keeping a low profile, or remaining silent, etc
We can avoid touching on this sensitive topic and thus better maintain a harmonious relationship with each other.
Everyone has their own glorious past,Those past honors and achievements form part of our lives.
However, in social settings, we should not mention too much about past glories.
Frequent talk about past glories can easily lead to self-absorption.
You may inadvertently reveal a sense of complacency and conceitThink that your past glory is enough to prove your worth and ability.
This attitude can easily make others feel uncomfortable and even turn aversion to you.
Imagine that at a party or in a casual conversation with friends, you are constantly mentioning your past honors and accomplishmentsIt may make others feel like you're showing off and showing off.
They may have to hypocritically pander to you,And the heart may not agree with or even laugh at you.
It is important to note that the glory of the past is not indicative of the strength and quality of the present.
Putting too much emphasis on past glory can make people lose sight of your current efforts and progress.
At the same time, it can also put you in a state of stagnation
No longer pursue higher goals and achievements.
When communicating with others, we should make less mention of past glories.
Of course, it's okay to share some past experiences and stories, but avoid overemphasizing your accomplishments and accolades.
Instead, we should pay more attention to the present and the future
Share our dreams, plans, and efforts with others.
In this way,Only then can we truly build relationships that are equal, genuine and supportive.
As the saying goes, the suffering of ** is often a burden that cannot be easily shared with others.
In the ups and downs of the world, it is difficult for us to avoid encountering all kinds of painful things.
Sometimes we crave to talk about it in order to gain understanding and comfort from others.
However, too often mentioning one's own pain
It can be stressful or overwhelming for your friends and family, and it can even take a toll on your emotional bond.
Constant narratives of pain can easily give the impression that you are a person full of negative energy.
When you repeatedly talk about your pain,Negative emotions such as sadness and frustration are often released.
These emotions are contagious to those around themMake you a "source of negative energy" in the eyes of others.
In this world, no one can really bear the pain for anyone, and no matter how deep the suffering, you must face it independently after all.
Everyone has their own life dilemmas and inner struggles
Talking too much about your own pain will only make people resist it.
Therefore, when communicating with people,We should try to minimize the expression of our own pain.
This is not to imply that we should bury all our bitterness deep and not share it with anyone.
We can selectively reveal our hearts to trusted friends or loved onesBut there needs to be some moderation in the way and frequency of expression.
At the same time, try to resolve your inner pain in a positive wayFor example, engaging in physical and mental health exercises, engaging in favorite hobbies, etc
Let time slowly heal the wounds hidden in the bottom of your heart.
Pay attention to it and encourage you together.
To grasp a man's heart, just keep these three words in mind.