The three senses of a man's extramarital affair are fresh and exciting to be needed
As Wang Xiaobo said, "Sex is only a part of life, not the whole story." "Men can ignore moral norms and get caught up in the maelstrom of extramarital affairs. In addition to sexual attraction, this is often driven by the following three "feelings".
According to experiments, scientists have found that when male mice are faced with multiple female mice in heat, they will immediately mate with all female ** until they are exhausted. However, once they are exhausted, even new female rats will not be able to arouse their libido.
Does this phenomenon also apply to the cheating behavior of some men in their married life? For example, a friend confided in me in a letter his "distress" that he had cheated.
Despite the guilt he felt, each time, he couldn't control his desires and made the same mistakes over and over again. He explained that his cheating partner was too much in line with his aesthetic standards, and that his wife was the only woman in his life and that he loved her.
He tries to alleviate his guilt by compensating his wife, but this behavior is like eating a fish with small spines, inadvertently causing pain every time. Despite this, his cheating did not change his love for his wife and his responsibility to the family.
In the Korean drama "The World of Husband and Wife", the story of Ji and Lee tells us that seeing is not necessarily believing. Although they are a model couple that everyone praises, there are still some subtle changes over the years after marriage.
Chi is the chief physician of the hospital, and Li is a well-known director. They have a child, but Lee becomes greedy after getting everything he dreams of.
On the surface, he and Chi love each other, but in reality he is with the young junior Lu Duojing. He insists that he is a heart and loves two people at the same time, but his true motive is only for excitement.
Lu Duojing is also obsessed with this thrill, she keeps personal belongings in Lee's trunk and *** even holds hands with him at Lee's birthday party. This story reminds us that love isn't always that simple, and we need to understand it with our hearts.
The value of understanding" - the eternal man talks about understanding: "Understanding is a blessing, and not being understood is not necessarily a misfortune." Those who place their value entirely on the understanding of others often do so because they lack self-awareness and independence.
However, there are still many people who are obsessed with being understood, but neglect to realize their self-worth. In the drama "Husband and Wife World", there is a scene that impresses me deeply. After Lee was caught cheating, Chi reflected on herself, and she realized that the relationship between husband and wife, the ultimate victim and victim is often herself.
Chi tries to understand her husband's deviant behavior, but this understanding seems to the cheating man and his supporters to be too late. For example, while accusing Chi, Lee's mother also ignores that Lee herself is also responsible.
What she should reflect on is why her son would do such a thing. ”
In the world of gender, men can sometimes be disoriented. After being confused, they did not hesitate to jump out of the moral boundary and act recklessly. When the wrongdoing is revealed, they always blame it on four words: the feeling is coming.
Ironically, they dare to express it, and some people want to believe it. For example, in a follow-up story, her wife, Chi, said, "Don't touch someone else's husband. For a married man with children, no matter how hot his body is, he can't destroy someone else's family.
This is something that only a bad woman would do. "Indeed, there is no doubt that the junior is wrong. But what I want to say is that people who like mistresses are not innocent either. After all, unilateral efforts can't produce results, you say?