Life is just a few decades, and we all live in this world for a lifetime, and it is impossible for it to be smooth sailing, nor can it be an independent individual. In the process of getting along with people, we need to learn how to interact with people, after all, everyone's thoughts and concepts are different. In our country, our ancestors, as people who have come from the past, have left us a lot of experience about interpersonal communication, which has been passed down in the form of rural sayings. Today, I would like to share with you a very reasonable saying: "If you are poor, you don't make three friends, and if you are in trouble, you don't ask for three."
People are poor and don't make three friends" is about when we are poor, there are three types of friends that we can't make. First of all, we can't make friends with those who share our paths. Because such people tend to get us stuck in negative emotions and can't get out of it. Secondly, we can't make friends with people who are full of negative energy. Their negative attitudes and complaints can be contagious to us and make us lose confidence in life. Finally, we can't hand over to people who don't know how to make progress. In the company of them, we will also lose our motivation and indulge in the status quo.
"Don't ask for three people when we are in trouble" means that there are three types of people who cannot seek help when we are in trouble. First of all, we cannot ask those who have betrayed us. Because they have lost trust, there is a high probability of betrayal again. Second, we can't ask those who look down on us. They will only look at jokes and will not really help us. Finally, we cannot ask those who have helped us. Because they have done their duty, it can be a burden for them to ask for help again.
This proverb tells us that on the road of life, we must learn to choose friends and be cautious about asking for help. Everyone has their own values and outlook on life, and wisdom is also needed in handling interpersonal relationships. We should be in the company of those who are positive and full of positive energy and make progress together. When facing difficulties, you must face them bravely, rely on your own efforts and the help of trustworthy people around you, and get out of the predicament step by step.
In real life, we meet all kinds of people. Some people seem to be kind on the surface, but in fact they are scheming; Some people may seem aloof, but they lend a helping hand when you are in trouble. Therefore, we need to learn to discern people's hearts, not to trust others easily, and not to be easily disappointed in others. Know how to be cautious in interpersonal interactions, and don't easily expose your hole cards to avoid getting hurt.
February**Dynamic Incentive Plan In addition, we must also know how to be grateful. In this world, no one is obligated to help us, and those who lend a helping hand when we are in trouble are our benefactors. We need to appreciate their help and repay them when we can. At the same time, we must also learn to say no. Some people may take advantage of our kindness and compassion and ask us to help them. In this case, we have to learn to say no and not let ourselves get into trouble.
In short, the saying "people who are poor do not make three friends, and those who are in trouble do not seek three" tells us that on the road of life, we must learn to choose friends and ask for help carefully. Getting along with people is a science, and we need to learn how to interact with people and how to deal with interpersonal relationships through continuous practice. At the same time, we must also know how to be grateful and refuse to protect ourselves from harm. Only in this way can we go further on the road of life and live better.
In the days to come, let us keep this saying in mind, cherish the friends around us, and cherish those who lend a helping hand when we are in trouble. At the same time, we must also learn to discern people's hearts and protect ourselves from harm. Let's work together to get out of our own wonderful life.