People, a thousand words, a thousand eyes, thousands of feelings.
Whether warm or indifferent, every communication and collision between people is silently telling a story.
01 Warm eyes: There is light in the eyes of well-meaning people.
Sister-in-law Zhang is an elderly person who lives alone in our community.
Her husband has long passed away, her children are living in other places, and Zhang's sister-in-law lives alone in a bright three-bedroom apartment.
When I first moved here, my sister-in-law Zhang took the initiative to visit, still holding a freshly baked fried bun in her hand.
Hello little sister, my house is next door to you, if you need anything, just ask! ”
Sister-in-law Zhang squinted her eyes and smiled gently, her silver hair refracted the crystal light, and the whole portrait was wrapped in a warm halo.
It was a cold winter day, and Sister-in-law Zhang's words and smile were like lighting a small lamp in my heart.
Since then, I have often seen Sister-in-law Zhang active in the community. She always takes the initiative to greet everyone, and her kind appearance is like a kind elder.
I also gradually got acquainted with her, and sometimes when I came home from overtime at night, Sister-in-law Zhang would always knock on my door with food and ask me to have a good meal.
Little sister has worked hard! This newly opened beef noodle shop is very good, you can try it! ”
The smile in the corner of Sister-in-law Zhang's eyes is particularly warm, and I always feel that her doting gaze is like a mother who loves her children.
Once, when my grandmother was sick and hospitalized, I was so busy, and my sister-in-law heard about it and took the initiative to prepare three meals for me every day and put them at my doorstep.
Don't worry about the family and take good care of grandma! Sister-in-law Zhang patted me on the shoulder, her eyes full of concern.
There is warmth in the world, because there are people like Sister-in-law Zhang.
The kindness in her eyes flickered like a star, warming one person after another.
02 Indifferent eyes: People who are empty in their hearts have no warm sun.
Aunt Li is the new logistics supervisor in our unit.
She is in her early fifties, wears smart glasses, dresses meticulously, and exudes a sense of coercion in her work efficiency.
I still remember the first day I met Aunt Li, she scanned the office with a blank face, her indifferent eyes like two sharp blades.
You can't ask for any waste! Aunt Li pursed her lips and announced solemnly.
The atmosphere in the entire office was suppressed all of a sudden, and Aunt Li was like a cold-blooded strong woman who was raised by pulling seedlings.
After that, Aunt Li really "rectified" the company according to her style. She simply dismissed several old employees with poor performance, and introduced a group of young newcomers.
I once tried to have a good relationship with Aunt Li, but she always looked like she was not close to anyone, and kept a distance from everyone.
At a company annual meeting, Aunt Li was uncharacteristically drunk, and that was the first time I saw her fragile and lonely side.
She said to me with red eyes, "You know what? I've never really had a bosom friend in my life. ”
Only then did I suddenly realize that under Aunt Li's arrogant and indifferent appearance, there was the same pain and loneliness as ordinary people.
Perhaps, she actually craves warmth, but she is used to pretending to be strong in front of others.
There is no indifference in the world, it is all because of the loneliness in the heart.
As long as you are willing to open your heart and understand, you and I are no different.
03 Firm gaze: Powerful in the eyes of those who are full of courage.
When Xiao Wang first joined the work, he was well-known in the company for being afraid of things and ink.
The boss almost grabbed his ears and scolded him every day, and no one else looked at Xiao Wang in his eyes.
At an all-staff meeting, the boss was annoyed and angry, and criticized Xiao Wang in front of everyone, and Xiao Wang stood on the stage in humiliation, with a red face.
After the meeting, everyone was in an uproar to tell him to get out, but Xiao Wang suddenly stood up and said calmly and firmly: "I will prove it to you!" ”
From that day on, Xiao Wang's whole person was different.
He came early and left late, worked diligently, and did not pass the buck when he encountered problems, but tried to solve them by all means.
Half a year later, a big project we followed up went wrong at a critical moment, and the atmosphere was very tense for a while.
At this time, Xiao Wang stepped forward, with perseverance in his eyes: "Leave it to me!" ”
In the end, under the leadership of Xiao Wang, the project was successfully completed, and Xiao Wang also became a young and promising project manager in the company.
The boss looked at him and nodded approvingly: "You are more courageous than I thought!" ”
Since that meeting, Xiao Wang has never lowered his head again. Because he found the coordinates in his life-
Only those who have aspirations can break the kettle.
There is light in the heart, and there is a natural scene in the eyes!
04 Energetic eyes: Positive people have a broad vision.
Come, count with Auntie, how many happy places there are today! ”
Auntie Chen is an aunt in the community who seems to be always positive and optimistic.
Every morning, she would stand in the community square and greet the residents who passed by:
Xiao Zhang, a new porridge shop has opened today, and the porridge is delicious! Go for it! ”
Ah Qiang, why don't you look good, is it too late to work overtime, go home early and go to bed! ”
Aunt Chen's smiling appearance is like a brilliant sunflower, conveying vitality to everyone who passes.
Once, my car tire burst inexplicably, and I was in a hurry in frustration, and Aunt Chen appeared out of nowhere.
She blinked her big bright eyes and smiled, "Need help?" It's just a change of tyre, let's do it together! ”
Finally, after changing the tires, Aunt Chen even drove me to the repair shop.
Don't be discouraged when you encounter difficulties, it will always pass! She laughs.
I curiously asked Aunt Chen why she was always so positive and optimistic, and she asked me rhetorically
Life is inherently cloudy and sunny, so why always think about the worst? Happy every day, aren't you? ”
Aunt Chen's hearty laughter seemed to have magic power, and I couldn't help but laugh along, and my worries were swept away.
Because life is too short, why waste time complaining about life?
Living oneself is the highest state.
The story is still long, please leave the laughter on the road!
05Summarize the true meaning of life.
or warmth, or indifference; Perseverance, or slackness.
In this world, thousands of eyes are intertwined and collided, and each light in them confirms the origin and destination of our life.
In the end, what we need may be simple:
A warm hug;
a bosom listener;
An undetachable reliance.
to pity the shortcomings of others and understand the fragility of life;
to discover the small fortunes around you, to remember the preciousness of life;
To forgive the mistakes of others and to cherish the beauty of life.
If a person is like a rainbow, he knows it when he meets it.
Life is like fireworks, blooming is always beautiful.
May you and I be the brightest colors in the world, illuminating every scenery with us!