In the journey of life, everyone must hold several important "hole cards" as a guarantee of their own safety. Because, in reality, we can't always rely on others.
Can you rely on your partner wholeheartedly? Will he be able to be consistently good to you? Even for your own parents, they may not be able to be your eternal dependence due to their limited abilities or other reasons.
Therefore, self-reliance has become an inevitable choice, and it is also the embodiment of our sober cognition. When people enter the age of 50 and are approaching the later stage of life, it becomes particularly important to keep their "hole cards".
Because the next challenges are death, aging, illness and the separation of loved ones, and each challenge needs to be supported by our "hole cards". Whether the other person is a relative or a friend, we should all remain silent. There are three cards, especially not easily revealed.
In real life, most people have limited ways to make money, relying mainly on their salary and then storing it.
Therefore, the deposit is one of our strongest hole cards. When people reach the age of 50, it is enough for them or their spouses to know their savings. There is no need to let anyone else know. We shouldn't treat it as a daily topic and give it away at will. Otherwise, it can lead to endless trouble. Because some people, once they know that others have wealth, they will become greedy.
They are not moral people who are self-disciplined and do not covet the property of others. Therefore, we must be on guard.
I often see people who say they have a deposit on the front foot. Within a few days, relatives came to borrow money. You say, if a relative borrows money, will he be able to repay it? It's hard to say.
If you don't borrow it, you offend people. You borrowed it for the sake of face, what was the result? When the time comes, your deposit may be wasted. Isn't it?
Your savings, that is, your pension money, medical money. This is not a topic of conversation, it needs to be discussed. You should be a little careful, don't talk nonsense.
When people reach the age of 50, they should keep their mouths shut and not go around publicly.
You know, most people will have a keen eye for wealth. When you see that other people have a lot of real estate, you will always say sour things, which is not good.
There are also people who know about you and make a big deal of it and get you into trouble.
In my circle of friends, I have an acquaintance friend who often shows off the number of properties he has. What sets, how much area, and so on.
to collect everyone's. I can understand this mentality. I just like the feeling of the stars holding the moon.
In fact, there are many people who scold him behind his back and hope that he is unlucky.
This is human nature.
People over 50, no matter how many properties they have, they also need to keep a low profile. Don't give yourself any more trouble and cause unnecessary trouble.
Finally, the child's situation cannot be easily revealed. You know, every family is in trouble.
Some people may be jealous of your children's excellence. Some people may even use your children's information to engage in some bad behaviors.
We also need to be tight-lipped about our children's situation. Only in this way can we guarantee their safety and stability.
In general, when a person reaches fifty, he needs to be wise and cautious enough to protect his "hole cards". Only in this way can we live a more stable and happy life in the later years of our lives.
In real life, the network we carefully cultivate is the one that takes a lot of effort and resources to build.
This precious resource is by no means something that can be displayed at will.
Otherwise, you may be taken advantage of, which is a very bad thing.
If you refuse someone else's request, you will inevitably feel guilty.
It's a real dilemma.
I once knew a friend who had an influential network in her family.
However, this caused her endless troubles.
She often receives all kinds of unreasonable demands, all of which ask her to do something difficult for her.
It's really speechless.
It is not that network resources cannot be used, but the object and occasion must be distinguished.
In our daily lives, we should keep a low profile to avoid unwarranted trouble.