Oh my God, this article is like a "dinner book"! At the dinner and wine table, we must not only eat and drink well, but also learn how to behave ourselves and how to deal with people. This article summarizes 30 tips that can improve our performance at dinner and wine tables, and after reading it, it is really eye-opening, and I have to admire the summary ability of this master who has been in the wine game for many years.
Let's talk about a few of these 30 details.
Detail 1: Seating arrangement.
Seating arrangements can be a big problem at dinners. Generally, the host will sit in the middle and the important guests will sit next to the host. In addition, the seating arrangements should also take into account the identity, status and relationship of the participants, and should not be arbitrarily arranged. For example, if you put a person you don't know well in an important position, it may make the other person feel embarrassed and the atmosphere of the whole meal will be awkward.
Detail 2: Table manners.
Etiquette is very important at the dinner table. For example, don't make loud noises, don't point chopsticks at others, don't blow hot and cold dishes with your mouth, etc. These small details may seem insignificant, but they can reflect a person's upbringing and quality. If you behave appropriately and politely at the table, it will make a very good impression.
Detail 3: Toasting skills.
At the wine table, a toast is an essential part. But how to toast appropriately and generously? First of all, it is necessary to pay attention to the order of toasting, generally speaking, it is necessary to toast in the order of identity and status. Secondly, pay attention to the way of toasting, not too enthusiastic or cold, but in moderation. Finally, pay attention to the language of the toast and say some words of blessing or gratitude to make the other person feel warm and respected.
In addition to the above three details, this article also summarizes many other tips, such as how to order, how to adjust the atmosphere, how to communicate with people, and so on. These tips are very practical and worth learning.
Now, let me give you a few examples.
Example 1: Seating arrangement.
Once, I attended an important dinner, and the seating arrangement was very particular. The host sits in the middle, with two important guests on the left and right. As an ordinary participant, I was placed in a relatively inconspicuous position. However, even so, I was very careful about my performance, tried not to talk to the people next to me, and remained quiet and polite. In this way, although I did not sit in an important position, it also made a good impression.
Example 2: Table manners.
Once, I was having dinner with someone I didn't know very well. At the dinner table, I pay great attention to my words and actions, and try to be as appropriate and polite as possible. For example, I am very careful when using chopsticks to pick up food to avoid touching other people's dishes; I also try not to make a sound when I eat to avoid disturbing others. These small details make each other feel very comfortable and pleasant, and also make the communication between us smoother.
Example 3: Toasting technique.
Once, at a cocktail party, I met a very important client. As a sign of respect and gratitude, I decided to toast him. When toasting, I pay great attention to my tone and attitude, which is neither too enthusiastic nor too cold. At the same time, I also said some words of thanks and blessings, which made the other person feel very warm and happy. In this way, our relationship has become closer and more harmonious.
In short, performance at dinner and wine tables is not only a social skill, but also a kind of life wisdom. Only by constantly learning and accumulating can we navigate this "battlefield" with ease and calmness. Therefore, everyone must save this article well, read it more, remember it, and make yourself better!
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