Dinner is the core occasion of business socialization, and it is also a battlefield without gunsmoke, especially high-end dinners, between pushing cups and changing lamps, there are scheming and mysteries everywhere, and if you are not careful, you will fall into the trap carefully constructed by others. Women, especially young and beautiful women, must be highly vigilant about some so-called high-end dinners, and if they can, they will not participate, so as not to become "gifts" for bigwigs, "condiments" to spice up the atmosphere, and "accessories" to highlight the noble status of others.
First, don't be treated as a gift. "Treat" and "gift" are twin brothers, asking people to do things to drink, but drinking is not enough, often need to "express" and "meaning". Young women are not deeply involved in the world, sometimes in the face of commitment and **, it is inevitable to be fascinated, under the instigation of the boss and the catalytic effect of alcohol, accidentally sheep into the tiger's mouth, was presented as a gift to the "noble", when the bottom line is broken, only to regret it, not only to shame themselves, but also to make their boyfriend hateful. Although some girls have self-esteem and self-love, but some men drink too much, they love to use the strength of wine to get up and down.
Second, don't be used as a condiment. Heroes with beauties, talents with beauties, above the wine table and dinner, who doesn't like flowers, wine and autumn fragrance? In particular, the Bureau of Commerce, if you have one or two beautiful women with long sleeves and good songs to help add color, not only the scenery of the east is unlimited, but also the work can be twice the result with half the effort, and the atmosphere of the dinner will be different immediately, and it will also stimulate the desire of successful people to perform, just like adding chicken essence to the soup to enhance the freshness. However, women are not tools to please men, and what is the difference between laughing and chasing joy in front of people they don't know, and their voices are flattering, and they are different from the ancient singers who were used for people to amuse? You are not Master Li or Chen Yuanyuan, women in the new era pursue the independence of personality and the purity of soul, just do their usual work, they have no obligation to please or cater to anyone, and they don't need to reflect their value on the vulgar wine table.
Third, don't be used as an accessory. As we all know, men look at belts, women look at bags, and accessories are a comprehensive embodiment of a person's status, financial resources and aesthetics. In the same way, the girl that a man brings to dinner can reflect the strength, charm and taste of this man, the more beautiful the girl, the higher the man's "rank" may be. Essentially, the girl he was carrying was no different from a belt, a purse, or a watch. But from the standpoint of a girl, she is an independent individual, not a vassal of a man, not a tool for the company to carry out public relations, and the minimum respect for women must be there!
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