Hu, age 68, height 175 meters, a monthly pension of 1,000 yuan, living with her son, describing herself as a very loose woman.
Hu said that she is not good at cooking, so she hopes to find a partner who can cook, who is not strict about her appearance, and pays more attention to the other party's cooking skills and morality. She believes that as long as you truly love each other in your heart, external conditions do not matter.
When she offered to remarry, she wanted a bride price. Soon after, thanks to the matchmaker's introduction, she met a man who could cook who was willing to pay the bride price.
The man's name is Yu, divorced, 68 years old, owns his own house, is a small shop owner, and has an annual income of between 8 and 90,000 yuan.
Yu believes that in his later years, he needs to have a partner to be perfect, and no matter how rich he is, he can't replace it. He expressed his desire to find a partner to live with, since his daughter is married and busy with work and cannot be with him often, and he hopes that someone can take care of each other to ease the burden on his daughter.
The matchmaker was very relieved to learn that Yu's daughter supported his decision to remarry. She asked Yu about her partner's requirements.
Yu said that he hopes that his partner will be healthy and is genuinely willing to spend the rest of his life with him. He claims to be mild-mannered and generally tolerant. At the same time, he also expressed his acceptance of the woman's proposal for a bride price.
The idea of the matchmaker praising Yu is very rare, because most men will not accept a woman's request for a bride price.
Yu emphasized the sincerity of finding a partner, and he believes that the bride price of 30,000 to 50,000 yuan is not a big problem in his opinion.
The matchmaker came up with the idea that if one person needed a bride price and the other was willing to pay it, then it was likely that there would be a common topic between them. So she decided to arrange a meeting for them.
After the two met, Yu found that Hu was taller and felt some pressure to be with her. But then he reflected and felt that in addition to his height, Hu was very good in other aspects, especially **fair-skinned, gentle and considerate in speech and demeanor, exuding charming femininity. Yu felt that he should know more about her.
The matchmaker learned that Yu had a good impression of Hu, so she asked Hu how he felt about him.
Hu said that she attaches great importance to a person's qualities, as long as both parties can talk happily, she doesn't care about the other party's appearance at all.
So the two started talking, and Yu took the initiative to mention the reason for his divorce, saying that it was because his wife was too strong, always controlled the family's finances, and was unwilling to support him when he needed money, which led to a long dispute.
After hearing this, Hu said that she would not interfere in Yu's economy, she liked men to play a leading role in the family, and she just wanted to live a relaxed life.
Yu was satisfied after hearing this, because he didn't want his other half to interfere too much in his economy.
Hu went on to say that she is not good at housework, especially cooking, and she is unable to provide meals for guests when they come to visit.
Yu said that there was no problem at all, he had long been accustomed to cooking and washing independently in his single life for many years, and he said that he was doing everything, so Hu did not have to worry.
In this case, Hu made a request to remarry, saying that she needed a bride price as a condition for remarriage.
Yu asked Hu what the amount of bride price she expected? Hu replied that she didn't need much, just 100,000 was enough. In addition, she also asked for 1,000 yuan of pocket money every month.
When Yu heard this request, he felt a little caught off guard. He thought that his willingness to pay the bride price was already a good expression, but he didn't expect Hu to ask for 100,000.
Hu saw Yu's embarrassed expression and explained that if he couldn't pay it once, he could also pay it twice.
After hearing this, Yu Mou sighed, this is not like looking for a partner at all, it is like making a transaction, it is difficult for him to accept this kind of marriage conditions with a clear price.
He continued, Hu is no longer young and will not have any more children, so why did she make such a request?
Hu explained that in fact, she didn't want the 100,000 yuan to spend it for herself, but to help her son.
Yu Mou was even more unacceptable when he heard it, he thought that if the bride price was to subsidize his son's family, then there was no point in talking about this marriage. February** Dynamic Incentive Program
He pointed out that Hu's son's behavior is relying on his parents, and such a family is destined to become a bottomless pit and spend money endlessly.
Hu thinks that Yu is conservative, and she thinks that since the money is given to her, what difference does it make if it ends up being spent on whom?
In the end, due to the bride price issue, the blind date between the two ended in failure.
This experience tells us that the person to marry, character and the ability to get along are far more important than money. At the same time, parents should also let go in a timely manner so that their children can learn to live independently.