Reading Lu Yao s Life , you can understand what is the best state of life

In life, people are always in pursuit of an ideal state, hoping for a successful career, a satisfactory relationship, and a smooth life, but it often backfires.

is like Gao Jialin in Lu Yao's famous book "Life", who wanted to change his fate through knowledge, but unfortunately failed in the college entrance examination and was squeezed out of his position as a teacher;

wants to find an object with a soul fit and good conditions, but because of Longwangshu, he is empty;

found a good career through shortcuts, and was reported for being ambitious, and finally returned to the original point after going around and around.

He fought against fate again and again, was brutally attacked by reality again and again, experienced the vicissitudes of the world, felt the warmth and coldness of the world, and finally chose to let go, let go, and face it, but lived a frank and calm life.

Most of life's troubles are:I can't think about it, I can't get it, I can't hide from it.

Let's see how Gogarin solved these puzzles and found the best in life.

I can't think of it, let go of Gao Jialin was born in the loess high slope of northern Shaanxi, his parents are honest farmers, and he saved money for him to study in high school, but he was not admitted to the university of his dreams, so he had to go back to the countryside to become a private teacher. Although this profession has a meager income, it is the best way to the ideal, and he is a little satisfied that he can work in the field of literature without facing the loess. After three years of teaching, he has been recognized by students and parents, and has published several essays and poems in the district newspaper. But things in the world are often not as beautiful as we envision, sometimes we can't get the desired results even if we try our best, and fate often plays tricks on people at critical times. Overnight, Gogarin's position was replaced by the village party secretary's son, Sanxing, who was so angry that he wanted to risk his life to fight them. Parents tried hard to dissuade them, fearing that even the back road would be cut off by this trouble, so Gao Garin had to endure his grievances and spend his sluggish time in depression and decadence. But the predicament of the family does not allow him to be lazy, and the croppers will be looked down upon if they do not work, so instead of being entangled and exhausted, it is better to unload the burden of thought and regain the power of life. He bothered his spirits and carried a basket of steamed buns prepared by his mother to the city to sell. The high level of the literati made him unable to integrate into the torrent of businessmen, the people in the bazaar were scattered, and he did not sell a bun, and the girl Qiaozhen, who had always admired him, was anxious in her eyes and took the initiative to help him solve the trouble of "a basket of buns". The next day, he would rather work in the field than go to the city to offer ugliness, and he dug into the ground as if he were angry, and he did not stop blistering blood on his hands and dyeing his hands red. His parents were worried about him and shouted at him; The old man in Deshun in the village was distressed when he saw it, helped him stop the bleeding, and let him do light farm work; Qiaozhen can't wait to help him get a job to get rid of, and often stuffs him with good food behind his back. Warmth can soothe people's hearts, labor can vent emotions and stimulate fighting spirit, and Gogarin feels that the industriousness and tenacity of the croppers he also possesses. The pain faded in the washing of the years, and gradually Gogarin got out of his spiritual predicament, learned to plow and hoe, dared to dig out the dirtiest dung, and raised many rabbits, and the enthusiasm for life rose again in his heart. As the Mai family said: "People must learn to let go, and letting go is a kind of kindness that forgives others, and it is also wisdom to spare oneself." ”It turns out that suffering is not difficult, but an experience, and instead of complaining about the unfairness of fate, it is better to choose to let go. Sometimes without hesitation, you will hit your head and bleed, but letting go is a kind of bearing and calmness, letting go of others in order to fulfill yourself, silently enduring, secretly strong in order to live in the eyes of others.

If he can't get it, he will let go of the problem of survival, so that Gogarin's dream has been temporarily put on hold, but the obsession and pursuit in his heart are often calling to him, and he yearns for the sky in the city. Fate finally threw an olive branch to him, and on this day, Gao Jialin received a letter from his second father, saying that he wanted to transfer to the regional labor bureau chief, and Gao Jialin was so excited that he slapped the railing. Soon, after his second father took office, the sycophants around the leader helped him "reinstate" and sent him to the county party committee office as a communications officer. A new life unfolds in front of him, and every day at work, Gogarin carries his camera everywhere to interview and write newsletters; In his spare time, he reads books, reads newspapers, walks and plays basketball. Everything was like a dream, and it was really within reach, which made him ecstatic. In a flood rescue work, the press release he wrote was shocking, and his talent was popular throughout the county, attracting the attention of announcer Huang Yaping. When they were in high school, they had a heart, but after Gao Jialin returned to the countryside, Huang Yaping broke his thoughts, and now the two have matching careers, and the passion that was sealed in Huang Yaping's heart was ignited again. Although she has a well-connected boyfriend Zhang Kenan, she thinks that her boyfriend is not romantic and uninteresting, and the appearance of Gao Jialin makes her feel uneasy. Although Gao Jialin thought about Qiaozhen in his heart, it was Qiaozhen who gave him confidence in life when he was at a low point in his life, but Qiaozhen's lack of knowledge always left him with regrets in his heart. The new love has a fatal **, under Huang Yaping's initiative, Gao Jialin's emotional balance slowly tilted towards her, after all, Huang Yaping's family background, cultural heritage, appearance and temperament are better than Qiaozhen. Under the expansion of desire, the two abandoned their conscience, cut off their old feelings, and gradually distanced themselves from reality. But many times, fate will not favor anyone too much, nor will it focus all the grief on another person. You are content, and the beauty of life will flow for a long time; You are greedy, and everything you have will be taken back by the years. After Huang Yaping severed relations with Zhang Kenan, Zhang's mother was angry at Gao Jialin's "interference" and reported that Gao Jialin's participation in work was through the "back door", his position was withdrawn, his household registration was moved back to the countryside, and his bright future was ruined in an instant. Gao Jialin was like five thunderbolts, ashamed, and didn't even dare to go out of the door, but this time he did not complain, but calmly reflected. Realizing that his ability was not worthy of what he had in front of him, and that his feet were not enough to resist the risks of the outside world, he was relieved and took the initiative to break up with Huang Yaping. As Mr. Feng Zikai said:

Since there is no pure land, it is better to meditate; Since it didn't get its wish, it's better to be relieved.

Unable to hide, he was apprehensive in the face of Gogarin carrying his bags and walking on the road back to his hometown, thinking that he would be greeted by reprimands, insults and ridicule. When I was near the village, I heard a group of children singing Xintianyou on the hillside: Brother, you are not successful, and you only came back to ...... after selling your conscienceHe lowered his head in shame, the nobility of the literati had long since disappeared, everything in front of him was still the same, but his mood was not what it used to be. He lived up to Qiaozhen's affection, and smeared the face of the simple father and fellow villagers, even if he was punished, he should accept it calmly, and he should always face it. Thinking about it like this, Gogarin's heart seemed to be much lighter, and for the first time he felt that the ground under his feet was so kind. Zhou Guoping once said:

Man cannot control his own fate, but he can control his attitude towards fate and calmly bear the inevitable encounters that fall on his head.

Shen Fu wrote in "Six Records of Floating Life": "Life is busy, competing for short and long, but it is not a matter of glory and decline, and it is difficult to measure gains and losses. "Life is impermanent, success or failure is the norm, and it is not up to people to cause and die. There are peaks and valleys in your career, don't be arrogant when you succeed, don't slump when you fail, sometimes you try your best and may not be able to reap good results, as long as you work hard and don't leave regrets; There are gains and losses in feelings, cherish when you have it, don't be melancholy when you lose it, life is a passerby, don't expect it to last forever, just be glad to have it; Life has bitterness and joy, don't complain about the sky when you are bitter, don't get carried away when you are happy, watch the flowers bloom and fall, look down on the world, and the interweaving of bitterness and happiness is the original state of life. The plan is in the people, the success is in the sky, and if you can't think of it, put it down temporarily; If you can't get it, try to let go; If you can't hide, face it bravely. Don't be demanding that life go smoothly and everything is complete, don't be happy with things, don't be sad about yourself, work hard secretly, and grow up quietly, which is the best state of life.

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