In "The Grandmaster", Gong Er said when facing Mr. Ye for the last time: It is a gamble to say that there are no regrets in life. If there are no regrets in life, how boring it should be.
Yes, life is like chess, and there are no regrets. There is no perfection in life, regret and regret are the normal state of life.
Zong Pu wrote at the end of "Lilac Knot": Everyone has many unpleasant things in their lives, and one thing is finished and one comes again. So cloves are there every year. The knot is inexhaustible; The problems in life cannot be solved, otherwise, wouldn't it be too dull and boring?
Life is never smooth sailing, and twists and turns and ups and downs will always accompany life. However, it is precisely because of them that life has a sense of weight, and it is precisely because of the various unpleasant regrets in the period that make life more charming.
Therefore, we often say: regret is the normal state of life. Regret is an emotion that we inevitably have to experience on the road of life.
Regret is like a double-edged sword, it can make us miserable and make us stronger.
First of all, regret is a universal emotional experience. Whether it is a successful person or an ordinary person, they will encounter all kinds of setbacks and difficulties on the road of life.
When we look back, we often find that some things didn't go as expected, or some opportunities didn't take hold. These regrets can make us feel frustrated, lost, and even self-doubting.
But, as the famous writer Oscar Wilde said, "Life is a regrettable thing, because nothing can be perfect." "Regret is the norm in life, and we must learn to accept it and draw strength from it.
Second, regret can be our motivation to move forward. When we face regrets, we can choose to immerse ourselves in the pain, or we can choose to learn from them and start anew.
In the movie "When Happiness Knocks on the Door", the protagonist Chris Gardner experiences various setbacks such as unemployment, poverty and broken family, but he does not give up, but turns his regrets into motivation, works hard, and finally realizes his dream.
His life tells us that regret is not the end, but a new beginning. We can learn from our regrets, re-examine our goals and directions, and lay a solid foundation for our future life journey.
Again, regret can also make us cherish the happiness in front of us even more. When we have experienced some setbacks and difficulties, we will know how to cherish the happiness and good times in front of us even more.
In the movie "Titanic", the love story of Jack and Rose is full of regrets and tragedies, but their short time together is so beautiful and precious.
Life can't be smooth sailing, but we can make up for past regrets by cherishing the happiness in front of us. When we learn to cherish the happiness in front of us, we will be more grateful for life and love life more.