Some women naively think that if a man loves himself, then he will be like a bridge in a romantic drama, he will say those sweet words and do those romantic things.
However, life is very realistic, and more often than not, it is repetition, boredom, and vernacular. Those philosophical and emotional love words, it's not that he can't say them, but the probability of saying them must be very small.
If you want to know whether the man in front of you really loves you, or how much he loves you, don't look at the promises he makes for you, or the love words he says to you, how sweet they are, but put your mind on daily communication. What are his mantras, or what are some seemingly meaningless words?
Remember one thing, the more serious a man says to you, the more likely it is a prepared line. Among them, how much is true and how much is false, you have to weigh it carefully.
In fact, the man's three "nonsense" sentences reveal how deeply he loves you, very clearly.
1."Have you eaten? ”In the eyes of many people, this sentence may just be a daily greeting. Even, some people will find it a bit perfunctory.
However, if a man often asks you "have you eaten", it is actually a sign that he is always thinking about you. He cares about the details of your life, especially your eating habits and health.
This kind of care, although not as eye-catching as those vigorous actions, is like a long stream, constantly warming your heart.
When a man truly loves you, he will take your diet and daily life to heart and always pay attention to your physical condition. He worries that you will neglect to eat healthily because of your busy work schedule or other reasons.
Therefore, he will use this seemingly simple, but loving, way to remind you to take care of yourself. This kind of love may not be publicized, but it is more real and reliable, and it makes people feel deep warmth and care.
2."It's a pity, if only I were by your side. ”This phrase often comes up when you can't see each other. Whether it's because of the helplessness of a long-distance relationship, or a temporary separation due to busy work. When a man says this to you, he is actually expressing his deep thoughts and love for you in his heart.
He really wants to be with you, accompany you through every moment, share your joys and sorrows, and experience the bits and pieces of life with you. However, due to various reasons, he was unable to realize this wish, so he could only use these words to express his regret and helplessness.
Hidden behind this sentence is a man's deep emotional attachment to you and his desire for companionship. He longs to be there for you, to be there for you, to support you, and to be with you through every stage of life.
If you have such a man by your side, please cherish him well, because he truly loves you and is willing to give everything for you.
3."It's all my fault, it's useless. ”In love, we will inevitably encounter various problems and difficulties. When faced with these problems, if a man always takes the responsibility on himself and says words like "it's all my fault, I'm useless", then this is actually a manifestation of his deep heart care and love for you.
He doesn't want you to be hurt and wronged, so he'd rather blame all his faults on himself than let you take any responsibility.
Behind this kind of self-blame and guilt, what is reflected is the deep love and sense of responsibility that men have for you. He is willing to bear all difficulties and challenges for you and is willing to give all the effort for your happiness.
Although, such a man may not be perfect, and he may have some shortcomings and shortcomings, his love for you is sincere and firm. He is willing to give everything for you and only wants you to live a happy life. This kind of selfless love is touching and cherishing.