A person's behavior and habits often affect his popularity and relationships.
No matter when, we are in the "humane society", whether we know how to deal with people, whether we know how to deal with people, whether we know how to deal with the relationship between people, which determines whether people's lives are happy or not.
Once people reach middle age, we should pay more attention to our own cultivation and behavior, so as to fully show a mature and stable image.
However, some middle-aged people are arrogant and arrogant because of their small achievements or rich experience, and do a lot of demeaning things for themselves. Not only will it affect your own image, but it may also cause trouble to the people around you, which can make interpersonal relationships more strained.
So, you have to know,When you reach middle age, these 4 behaviors will only ruin your "good popularity", and the sooner you change it, the better!
Self-righteous, standing on the moral high ground and blaming others
The most important thing for us to live in this world is to see ourselves clearly, how much appetite we eat, but even if they understand these truths, there will always be some self-righteous people who like to stand on the moral high ground to accuse others.
It's easy for us to see the shortcomings of others, but it's easy to see our own shortcomings, just like our nostrils, and we can't see them under our noses.
Especially some people who have reached the age of not being confused, they are idle and have nothing to do, but whenever something happens to someone's family, they regard themselves as God, and stand on the moral high ground to accuse others of wrongdoing, but sometimes some of the things they do make people very speechless. So before you talk about others, please reflect on yourself.
Self-aggrandizement, short-sightedness and self-awareness
In the social interaction of middle-aged people, self-boasting is a behavior that can lead to image loss.
Boasting too much about your achievements and experiences often gives the impression that you are short-sighted and unaware.
People who like to boast about themselves tend to be short-sighted and ignore the really important elements of socializing, which are sincerity and equality.
Over-exaggerating one's past accomplishments, while it is possible to gain some attention in a short period of time, that attention comes and goes quickly, and can quickly turn into negative comments about one's vanity and narcissism. Not only does it affect other people's perception of their image, but it also alienates one's relationships with others.
Regardless of the time and occasion, just explode foul language
As for the habit of saying foul language, many people will say that it is a habit, but I say that as long as I am comfortable, I don't care what others think.
However, this kind of venting of emotions will only be discriminated against by others. In the eyes of the other party, your behavior of swearing is obviously unqualified.
When we habitually use swear words to scold others to express our dissatisfaction, although this can express our anger, the consequence of expressing anger in this way is to make others think that you have no culture, no quality, and let others look down on you.
Chew the root of the tongue behind you
When people reach middle age, they should no longer be like when they were children, once they dislike which person will chew the root of their tongue behind them, they can be regarded as childish words when they are children, but when they reach a certain age, they are often regarded as "telling right and wrong".
Chewing the root of the tongue behind is a bad phenomenon, are contempt for others, there is a saying called "others are wrong, people do not know the length of the future", everyone is an independent individual, will have their own thoughts, but also disgusted to hear others behind their own discussions, because many things are not what they say, do not know the truth and draw conclusions at will, that will undoubtedly bring some damage to others.
You should not chew the root of your tongue behind you, you must learn to empathize, you don't want what you don't want, other people's lives have nothing to do with yourself, so why bother to go and judge the head?
Before doing things, recognize your true identity, and people who love to chew the root of their tongue are the most annoying, if you have this kind of behavior, don't blame yourself for losing your good popularity.
Emotional message
A person's words and deeds can often determine your popularity, and in the process of interacting with people, if you want to gain a good popularity, you must be clear in your heart about what you should do and what you should not do.
When you are not confused, if you want to maintain a good interpersonal relationship, you need to pay a lot of time and energy, and there are really not many people who can make friends, but these actions of yours will only lose your popularity, persuade you not to smash it in your own hands, and it will only be you who will suffer when the time comes!
I hope that every middle-aged person will have a ruler and a degree in his heart, and construct his own pure spiritual home. When your heart is still, your world is still.
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