Hello, friends, let's talk about some excitement today - have you ever met the kind of person who is polite to you at the beginning and gnashes his teeth at you in the blink of an eye? This kind of person, from envy to jealousy, to hate, is simply a living "scheming drama"! Today, let's take a look at these three kinds of "scheming boys" to see what "wonderful" they have, and how should we deal with them?
Category 1: Envy Maniac is online
This kind of person, at the beginning, seeing that you are doing better than him, it is like discovering a new continent, with little stars flashing in his eyes, and his mouth says: "Wow, you are so amazing!" "But don't be blinded by their sweet words, that's the beginning of their envy of you.
For example, if you buy a new car, they start to show your car in their circle of friends, with that kind of "I want to have it too" emoji. At this point, you may be triumphant and thinking, "Oh, my new car is so popular!" But in fact, they may be thinking about how to "steal" your car or make a few strokes!
So, when you encounter this kind of envy maniac, you have to take it easy, don't show all your good things, otherwise be careful of them stumbling you behind your back!
The second category: jealousy
These are the kind of people who only envy you at first, but as time goes on, their jealousy starts to haunt you. When they see that you are doing better than him, they start to find fault with you, saying that you are not good here or wrong.
For example, if you perform well at work and are appreciated by your boss, they will start muttering behind their backs: "Hmph, he also relies on luck, ** what real skills do you have!" Or when they see you wearing a new dress, they say, "It's ugly, and only you can wear it!" ”
This kind of person is a typical "can't eat grapes and say grapes are sour". When they see that others are good, they feel unbalanced, and they have to find some fault to balance their mentality. When you meet this kind of person, you must not be like them, otherwise you will have to be angry with them!
The third category: full of hatred
This kind of person is simply a "perfect interpretation" from envy to jealousy to hate. They may call you brother and sister at first, but once they find out that you are doing better than him, they start to hate you.
For example, if you are promoted because you have done a good job, they will start spreading rumors about you behind your back, saying that you have relied on improper means to get to the top. Some people will even stumble you in the dark and try to pull you off.
This kind of person is simply psychologically twisted to the extreme. When they see that others are good, they want to destroy them. When you encounter such people, you have to be very careful, don't be harmed by them!
Okay, having said all that, do you think these three "scheming boys" are quite a headache? In fact, life is like this, full of uncertainties and challenges. We can't meet all the good people, and it won't be smooth sailing. But ah, as long as we keep a normal heart and face these "scheming dramas" with wisdom and courage, we will definitely be able to overcome the difficulties and meet a better future!
So, friends, the next time you meet these "scheming boys", remember to take it easy, don't be "pitted" by them. At the same time, learn to protect your enthusiasm and kindness, and not let them be consumed by those who don't deserve it. After all, our time and energy are limited, and we should spend it on more worthy people and things.
The last thing I want to say is: life is like a big drama, and each of us is the protagonist. But don't forget to add a little drama to make this drama even more exciting! And those who can only envy, envy, and hate, let them play their "one-man show" in the corner themselves! We still have to keep moving forward and pursue our dreams and happiness!