There is a folk proverb: "Men look at the nose, women look at the mouth, and there is little wealth and less right and wrong in life." ”
In ancient times, people saw men with high, full noses as a sign of good luck. Especially for scholars, it is very likely that they will enter the officialdom and mix well.
The nose is plump, the tip of the nose is rounded, and it is a deer nose; The nose is high and straight, which is a noble appearance; Yamane has a straight life and may be wealthy.
After several years of confirmation, some of the words of the ancients are somewhat "" and not very credible。Especially nowadays, many people will trim their noses, and their appearance has changed drastically, and they can't see it at all.
From the book "I Ching", we can draw this conclusion: the so-called feng shui is human character and human nature. Including moral quality, the pattern of life, family planning, wisdom, etc.
Since we can't judge people by their appearance, then we look at how a person "uses his nose" and find out whether his character is good or bad.
And aspiring people "one nostril out of the air", win-win cooperation.
We often use the phrase "one nostril out of the air" to describe the relationship between two people as iron.
The two girlfriends went out together, they wanted to go to ** to see the scenery, and they were very unanimous, and the suggestions of outsiders, they either agreed or rejected together.
The husband and wife have a good heart, even if they do bad things, they will "synchronize" and protect each other. If you do good deeds, no one wants to be left behind.
For example, Shi Fu, a writer in the Ming Dynasty, picked up a package on the way, which contained seven or eight taels of silver, and he did not hesitate to sit and wait for the owner to come and receive it. When Shi Fu came home, as soon as he told the matter, his wife replied, "It should be, it was done right."
If you meet a person who is willing to "breathe out of one nostril" with you on the way to your career development, it means that the other party is determined to be with you and is trustworthy.
Many years ago, there were two cross talk actors in Hunan: Qizhi and Dabing. They cooperated very tacitly, and they also appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala.
It's a pity that after they became famous, they disbanded. After that, the career development of the two people showed a downward trend.
No matter what kind of emotion, any career, as long as there is a situation of cooperation, you must patiently observe whether the other party is "like-minded" with you, and don't be blinded by fake cooperation.
The sincere cooperation model reflects that the two people have good character and a high probability of success.
People who habitually "hook their noses" are more selfish.
There is a saying in the countryside: "Hook the nose and the eyes of the harrier, and go all the way to three risks." ”A person's nose is "hooked" in his own direction, his eyes are also fixed on interests, and he glows green when he sees gold and silver treasures, which is obviously selfish. Dealing with such a person, there are three points of danger in the beginning.
Of course, "hooked nose" does not simply refer to appearance, but is reflected and observed from words and deeds.
There is a story in the Ming Gongshu Judgment Qingming Collection.
The elder brother Pan Cong rented out a piece of land, and after a while, the younger brother Pan Tan sold the property to others. Therefore, the two brothers went to court.
The county magistrate made a judgment for them, but they were still not convinced, appealed again and again, and argued endlessly at home.
One day, the two brothers learned that the new county magistrate had taken office, and hurried to file a complaint.
After investigation, it was found that the elder brother had privately attributed the land property to his own name and collected rent before the division of the family; After the younger brother split up, he got the land and decided to sell it.
Obviously, my brother's approach is very selfish.
The county magistrate wrote a poem"The scourge of the wall, when is it." ”
Before and after, the brothers have been in a lawsuit for four years, and the cost has long exceeded the land itself, so why bother? It can be seen that selfish people will bring disasters to others, and their character is not trustworthy.
The easiest way to judge is to look at the other party, whether they take any benefits to themselves, if so, it is the characteristic of "hooking the nose", and I can't wait to treat the boogers as fertilizer; There is no pattern, no goodwill.
People who often "nostrils are facing the sky" are arrogant and arrogant.
Why is it possible to achieve "nostrils facing the sky"? The mystery lies in a proverb"Three nostrils - more than you breathe." ”
Some people have a lot of "qi", so two nostrils are not enough, and one more nostril is specially used to get angry.The main task of the nose is to breathe, smell smells, etc., not to get angry。Based on this alone, it can be judged that people who are always angry will not have a good character, and their wisdom is not enough.
When you chat with people, you will find that some people are "cut, hey, hum" as soon as they open their mouths. You definitely won't keep chatting with him, because his words make you very uncomfortable and obviously aggressive.
In addition, the nostrils are facing the sky, which also reflects that a person is not friendly enough to think that he is amazing. When you see someone who is poorer than yourself, you immediately raise the decibel level of your speech, and your eyes and nose are facing the sky, and you can see at a glance how bad his attitude is.
When I was a child, my grandmother used to teach us that if our nose is turned to the sky, the snot will not flow out, and it will block our hearts; When it rains, your nose will be filled with rainwater and pollute yourself.
The nose is pointing downward, which tells us to be humble and not to go the other way.
Of course, looking at a person's nose and judging a person's character is biased and cannot be generalized.
Confucius said: "I judge people by words, slaughter them if they lose, judge people by their appearance, and lose their sons." ”When Confucius saw that Zai Yu was sleeping lazy, he thought that he was unproductive. But later, Jae Yu studied diligently and made great achievements. Therefore, Confucius took the initiative to admit his mistakes.
When we interact with people, we should also learn from Confucius and not have "stereotypes". A bad person, we allow him to become good, a good person, we have to guard against him becoming bad.
Zeng Guofan said in "Bingjian": "The mountain with a nose is not high, and it is not effective." ”If the nose is as straight as a mountain, it should have the bearing of a mountain and be able to nourish all things, so that there will be aura.
Understanding the use of the nose, understanding the wisdom in it, and achieving one's own character is the ultimate goal.
When you encounter a person with poor character, it is "sneezing in front of the incense burner - puffing your nose with ashes", and it is better to stay away in time.
When you meet people with good character, you are "wearing a light bulb under your nose - civilization" and treat each other well.
To be a man, you must not only have good facial features, but also have a very positive outlook.