My name is Duan Caixia, and I have been raising my daughter Xiaomin alone for many years. As a mother, I am well aware of the importance of marriage to my daughter, so I am extremely cautious and firm when it comes to the issue of bride price.
Xiao Min and her boyfriend have known and fallen in love for three years, and the relationship between the two is stable, but the bride price issue has become a hurdle on the road to their marriage. I understand the difficulties of the man's family, and I also understand that the meaning of the bride price in modern society has gradually faded. However, as a mother, I still insisted that the other person pay 28A bride price of 80,000 yuan.
This is not because I value money, but because I want to add security to my daughter's future through the form of a bride price. I am well aware of the reality and cruelty of married life, and I don't want my daughter to suffer because of financial problems after marriage. At the same time, I also hope that through the form of bride price, the man's seriousness towards marriage and respect for Xiaomin will be tested.
I know that my persistence may be puzzling or even disgusting to some. But as a mother, I just want to build a stronger foundation for my daughter's future. I believe that true love is not based on money and material things, but on mutual respect and understanding.
In this society, marriage is no longer a simple emotional union, but a complex relationship involving many practical issues. I hope that through the bride price, I can add security and stability to my daughter's future. At the same time, I also hope that the man can understand that marriage is a responsibility and commitment, which requires the joint efforts and dedication of both parties.
Ultimately, I hope my daughter can find a man who truly loves her, respects her, and is willing to give everything for her. And the bride price is just an expectation and blessing for me as a mother for this marriage. I believe that a long and happy marriage can only be achieved on the basis of mutual respect and understanding.
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