In the process of children's growth, junior high school is a particularly critical period, they swing between ignorance and understanding, and parents are also particularly concerned during this time, hoping that children can concentrate on their studies and grow up healthily. However, in addition to problems such as puppy love, parents may not realize that "toxic friendships" between junior high school students may have a greater negative impact on children. It is worth being vigilant that getting along with "drug friends" may distort children's three views and damage the shaping of character. At this stage, the role of mentors is particularly important, as peer relationships have a profound impact on junior high school students.
In junior high school life, there will always be some classmates who do not focus on studying, and only know how to play and have fun all day long. This kind of behavior can not only affect the motivation of others, but also mislead others to focus on non-learning matters. Students need to constantly develop good study habits at every stage of their growth, and "drug friends" may lead students astray and form bad habits. Therefore, parents must stop their children from interacting too much with such classmates in a timely manner, and guide and educate them, so as not to affect their children's growth and development.
In daily life, some students are amiable on the surface, but in fact they are duplicitous and often talk about others behind their backs. Such students are often not easily noticed by parents and teachers, because they are good at disguising themselves and showing the image of "good students". However, this kind of hypocritical friendship can undoubtedly cause far-reaching harm to others, destroying trust between people and affecting the students around them. Therefore, students should stay away from such "hypocrites and drug friends" in order to maintain their innocence and innocence.
Another type of "drug buddies" are those who are always imitating others, from dressing to speaking and behaving, all of which are consistent with the students, and have lost their own characteristics and the ability to think independently. This kind of friendship is easy for students to lose themselves in comparison, produce inferiority complex and envy others, and affect students' self-awareness and independence in growth. Therefore, parents need to guide students to establish correct self-values, encourage them to be their authentic selves, and stay away from comparison and vanity.
The emergence of the problem of "toxic friendship" among junior high school students should arouse the attention and concern of parents. Parents should not only care about their children's academic performance, but also care about their children's interpersonal communication and character development. When it is found that there is too much communication between the child and the "drug friend", the parent's coping strategy is crucial. First of all, parents should communicate with their children in a timely manner, explain what is the right behavior and what is the wrong behavior, and guide the child to correctly understand the negative impact of "drug friends" on themselves. Secondly, parents should not exert severe pressure when guiding their children, but should respect their children's psychological feelings, treat them equally, and work with their children to solve problems together. Only on the basis of trust and understanding between parents and children will children be more willing to listen to their parents' teachings and make education more effective.
In general, the emergence of the phenomenon of "toxic friendship" among junior high school students is a social phenomenon that has attracted much attention. As the guide of children's growth, parents should always pay attention to their children's physical and mental health and behavior, guide their children to stay away from negative influences in the process of growth, and establish a correct outlook on life and the world. It is only through home-school cooperation, mutual care and education that children can thrive and move towards a better future.