As moms, we are in the process of raising our children. Children will cry a lot, and many parents will compromise. Therefore, many times, some parents will find that they are completely unable to handle their children. Is this compromise soft-hearted? If you define yourself as soft-hearted, then the child will always be able to pinch you.
The essence of the child's crying and the parents' compromise is that the parents are not determined enough and have no principles. Today's children are very daring to express themselves, so many parents feel that they can't figure out their children and think that what their children say is reasonable. Unconsciously compromised the crying of the child.
Last night, I happened to have an incident. watched TV for a while, and I reminded him once, but he was still a little procrastinating. Then, he was the last to enter the room. As a result, he went into the room to sleep regardless of the living room light. Then, he kept crying and begging me to turn off the lights.
I said, "I reminded you, you have to go in early, but you didn't resist **, you still want to watch TV for a while, so you must turn off this light". As a result, he cried: "Say he's so small, what if he falls?" ”。I said, "The best I can think of right now is that I'll turn on the lights on your phone, and you take your phone and turn it off so you can see it." As a result, he said, "I don't want to, don't you usually say that you need to know how to cooperate?" Then you go and turn off the lights, and I'll close the door to the room." Then, I said, "It's not a matter of cooperation, it's a punishment for not doing what you should do on time, and you're the last one you have to turn off the lights."
As a result, the child sat on the edge of the bed and cried all the time, asking me to turn off the light. At 9 o'clock, the child's crying is actually a very irritating thing. Because he is a small thing after all, but he is in his emotions, and it is very important for him as a parent to be able to catch his emotions and let him solve the problem rationally.
I first kept quiet for myself, and then told him that turning off the lights is a simple thing and you can solve it in 1 minute. It's too simple. Then he ran and immediately turned off the lights, and then came back to sleep and I hugged him. I think in the future, he will know that there are some things that he should do, and his mother will not indulge him.
Many parents can't take a firm stand because their emotions are affected by their children. If you're focused enough, you know that there's only one way to solve this problem, and that's to do the right thing.
As a mother, have you ever had a time in your life when your child cries and compromises?