There is such a true story that happened in college, Xiao Hua, who is in college, is very beautiful and works hard, and soon met a very rich girl Xiao Chen, and the two of them gradually got along and became the best friends, but due to the difference in the economic situation of the two, Xiao Chen also felt that Xiao Hua's family conditions were ordinary, and he could spend a little more money where he could spend money, so he rushed to pay for eating, drinking and having fun when he went out to play. Xiao Hua also understands gratitude and dedication, so he often helps Xiao Chen take takeaways and express delivery to occupy a seat, but in the eyes of outsiders, it seems that she is a rich lady and her little follower.
The turning point was that once they went shopping together, Xiao Chen's parents happened to come to see Xiao Chen, and the parents were also very generous to their daughter's consumption of luxury goods, Xiao Chen took a fancy to a luxury bag on the spot that needed to be distributed, Xiao Chen's mother also bought it without hesitation, and the distribution was a silk scarf, Xiao Chen also gave it to Xiao Hua next to him, which was also Xiao Hua's first luxury since she was a child, and every time she wore it out, people around her would express envy.
This also made vanity slowly grow in Xiaohua's heart, but with average family conditions, she could only rely on frequent part-time jobs to satisfy her idea of buying luxury goods. Four years after college, Xiao Chen went abroad for further study due to the support of his parents, while Xiao Hua missed too many classes because of his long-term part-time job, not only was his professional ability not strong, but he also did not get his graduation certificate, and finally it was difficult to find a job. Thank you for your patience to read this story, human nature is sometimes difficult to figure out, desires are sometimes uncontrollable for various reasons, reality is cruel, although it can't change the situation of reality for the time being, but people's cognition can't be imprisoned because of this.
In the story, Xiao Chen is always a person who thinks about his friends, although from the perspective of family circumstances, Xiao Chen's contribution will seem to be easier than Xiao Hua's, but they are all people who give each other in the relationship, and there should be no oneThe difference between the noble and the low
In terms of probability, the children of rich families are plumpMaterial nourishmentand thus the spirit will become rich. On the premise that ordinary children have not enjoyed superior material conditions, they are prone to breed desire, which is not bad, but depends on whether they can make their desire an upward through adjustmentDriving force
DesireIt is part of human nature and cannot be completely eliminated. Who to be friends with can also be based on your own wishes, and you should not put a formula on any relationship. Being friends with ordinary people can accompany each other, comfort and grow up; Being friends with rich people can share with each other what they know about the world, and at the same time improve their own knowledge of the world and see more possibilitiesThe right valuesOnly by germinating in the heart can we go steady and far on the road of life.
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