In the process of getting along with men and women, we often encounter such a situation: the other party obviously shows that he has a good impression of you, and can even say that he has feelings for you, but he does not take the initiative to contact you. It's confusing and anxiety-inducing. What is the reason for this?
Give the other person some time and space.
Sometimes, the other party may not be able to take the initiative to contact you due to some reasons, such as busy work, high pressure in life, etc. At this time, all you need to do is give the other person some time and space to give him a chance to reach out to you. Pursuing too much urgency may put pressure on the other person and thus shake your feelings.
Take the initiative to reach out to the other person, but be measured.
While waiting for the other party to take the initiative to contact, you can also take the initiative to contact the other party appropriately to express your concern and thoughts about him. However, it is important to note that you need to be careful and avoid contacting the other person too often so as not to annoy the other person.
Observe the other person's reaction.
By observing the other person's attitude and reaction to you, you can better understand his inner world. If he also has a crush on you, then he will definitely respond positively to your initiative to contact him. If he doesn't have a crush on you, he may be indifferent or rejective to your unsolicited contact.
Enhance your own attractiveness.
At all times, it is very important to enhance your own attractiveness. Not only will this make the other person more interested in you, but it will also allow you to take more initiative in your own feelings. Therefore, you need to constantly improve yourself, both outwardly and internally, and strive to be better.
Stay confident and optimistic.
While waiting for the other person to reach out to you, you need to be confident and optimistic. You have to believe that as long as you do well enough, the other party will definitely be attracted to you and take the initiative to contact you. At the same time, you also need to be prepared to accept any possible outcome, whether good or bad.
Overall, when the other person does not take the initiative to contact you, you need to be patient and calm, and make the other person aware of your existence and value by observing, communicating, and improving yourself. At the same time, you also need to be confident and optimistic, believing in your ability to attract the attention of the other person. As long as you do this, you will surely find your own happiness.
You may encounter various difficulties and setbacks along the way, but as long as you persevere, you will definitely be able to find a solution to the problem. Remember, love requires the joint efforts of both parties, and it is not enough for you to work alone. I hope that everyone can find the person who is willing to take the initiative to contact them and spend their lives together.