The biggest mistake of parents is to exhaust their children's luck, but they think that their children are not angry!
The influence of our parents on our lives cannot be ignored. They give us life, grow with us, and teach us how to face the world.
However, parents care and educate their children"gas"Sometimes it dries up invisibly.
This qi is not fate or luck in the traditional sense, but an inherent, invisible force that is associated with the child's autonomy, creativity, and inner peace. If parents control and interfere too much in their children's development, or even impose their own ideas on their children, this gas will be exhausted.
i.Children's life under parental discipline in traditional Chinese culture"Filial piety"It is one of the most important values. However, in some families,"Filial piety"Misconstrued as absolute obedience to parents, children are deprived of the right to think and choose independently.
From infancy to adulthood, children's interests, hobbies, and even career choices can be limited by ideas imposed by their parents. Children who grow up in this environment are often depressed, their creativity is buried, and they even have low self-esteem and rebellion.
2. The Consumption and Consequences of Luck When children are in a state of control and interference for a long time, their luck will be invisibly consumed. Luck is not a superstition, but a state that describes the growth and decline of an individual's inner strength.
When the qi is exhausted, children will lose interest and motivation in life, and even develop self-doubt and denial. Not only does this affect their mental health, but it also hinders them from reaching their potential and pursuing happiness.
iii The Necessity of Change It is natural for parents to care about their children's development. However, excessive control and intervention can only be counterproductive.
For the long-term development and well-being of their children, parents must reflect on their own parenting methods, respect their children's choices and wishes, and encourage them to think independently and be autonomous.
Only in this way can children truly unleash their potential and make them feel confident and energetic in their future lives.
How parents educate their children is a complex and sensitive topic. In order to pursue their children's success and happiness, parents must find a balance between love and control.
Excessive control and intervention can not only drain a child's qi, but also have a profound impact on their personality development and mental health.
As parents, we must recognize that each child is an individual with their own ideas, interests and potential.
Respecting and supporting their choices, rather than imposing their own will, is the way to educate them that is truly beneficial to them. Change doesn't happen overnight, especially for parents who have long been accustomed to control and intervention.
However, for the sake of the children's happiness and future, the process is worth it. As children, they also need to be brave enough to express their ideas and desires, and to fight for their rights and choices. Only in this way can family relationships be more harmonious and children grow up in a free and loving environment.
Social and family support systems also play a vital role in this process.
By providing relevant education and guidance, we can help parents better understand their children's needs and rights, so they can make more informed choices in the education process.
At the same time, we must also defend equal and respectful family relationships and break them"Absolute obedience"The traditional concept allows each family member to freely express their voice. In short, one of the biggest foolishness of parents is to fish as hard as they can. This is not an easy task and requires the joint efforts of parents, children and society.
Only when we truly recognize the importance of this issue and take positive action to address it can we create a better environment for the next generation to grow up.