Li Mei and Chen Long have known each other since college, and then have been from graduation to marriage and childbirth, everything in married life is very harmonious, but since they had children, Chen Long has been busy with work all day and has never taken children at all, Li Mei has been a traditional housewife, dealing with children every day, and the two have little communication, especially after experiencing the epidemic, Chen Long is unemployed, I thought I could accompany the children at home, but he has a good day of playing mobile games, or just brush the short**, ignore the children, Li Mei saw that he really hated iron and steel, and from time to time she had the urge to leave home with her children.
But after all, the child is still young, and can he go? Li Mei often cried into tears.
After the Chinese New Year in 2021, due to the large family expenses, two children to raise, the mortgage to be repaid, and they have no economy, the two often quarrel over money, there is really no way, they decided to take the children back to their hometown to their parents to help take care of them, the two went to Zhejiang to work, this is two years, usually on the mobile phone ** greeting and chatting, children due to the time with their grandparents, gradually they have a sense of strangeness to their parents, this year Li Mei and Chen Long returned to their hometown from Zhejiang, The children also felt a little strange when they saw them, but they were closer to their grandparents
Fortunately, during the Chinese New Year, the time they spent with their children increased, and gradually eliminated the children's sense of estrangement, Chen Long experienced too many setbacks outside, but also felt the importance of family affection, this time I went home to see that the children had grown up a lot, the two children took the initiative to hand over their pocket money to their parents, and called pitifully, Mom and Dad, you don't want to work this year, we want to be with you, in this countryside is always bullied by other children, Li Mei saw it in her eyes, tears were rolling, Holding the child distressedly and comforting.
In the past two years, their husband and wife have also made some money, and decided to do some small business in the small county, take care of the children, do not want them to be left-behind children, plus the parents are old, the legs and feet are inconvenient, and they also need to be taken care of, after this Spring Festival in their hometown, they returned to the county together, the deserted home has a long-lost laughter, slowly, the two children are closer to their parents, the little couple found a stall in the vegetable market in the west of the city, specializing in selling condiments, and the business is OK, So that the family can be together every day.
The story of Li Mei and Chen Long tells us that the improvement of the parent-child relationship is not achieved overnight, it requires the joint efforts and dedication of both husband and wife. Only when we really put down the work in our hands and accompany our children with our hearts can we establish a deep parent-child relationship. And this relationship is not only the cornerstone of children's growth, but also our most valuable asset as parents.
Through their stories, it is not difficult for us to find that the temperature of family affection needs to be maintained with time and companionship. In the fast-paced life, we may often run for a living, but please don't forget that family and children are what we should cherish the most. Let's slow down, feel the purest family affection with our hearts, and let the family become our eternal harbor.
The Learning Project aims to improve parent-child relationships