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There is such a sentence in "Ordinary World":
Isolation sometimes doesn't make people weak, it can even make people stronger and more spiritual.
A truly strong person must be a person who is rational, thoughtful, principled, and persistent.
And through the experience and experience that I have accumulated day by day, I will make myself more and more independent and manage my own life.
In this way, I am not afraid of being isolated, but also dare to isolate everyone, so that I can truly follow my inner voice and take the current path.
Someone asked the question, "What is the root cause of suffering in life?" ”
One of them replied:
Everyone is attacked by two arrows: the first arrow is shot at you from the outside, and the second arrow is shot at itself by itself. ”
In fact, isolation is like an arrow, whether it is shot at others or at yourself, you must let yourself grasp the initiative in it.
In this way, let yourself take the initiative and manage your own life, so that we will have more and more confidence to live this life.
Don't meddle in things
It has been said that the world is like a kaleidoscope in which everyone has their own unique way of life.
This unique way of life will produce different value orientations, so why we can't wake up others, not only because others can't wake up themselves, but also because everyone has their own choices.
In this case, we should not please anyone, but know that everything can be done by ourselves, and we can control our destiny by ourselves.
To put it bluntly, a person who lives a truly transparent life must not let himself be nosy.
Therefore, we are not afraid of being isolated, or returning ourselves to a lonely life.
After all, in this world, especially in life, there are joys and sorrows between people.
Mr. Lu Xun wrote such a passage in "The Collection":
"The man downstairs was sick to death, and the family in the room was singing on the gramophone; On the other side is to get the kids. There were two people upstairs laughing maniacally; There is also the sound of playing cards. There was a woman on the boat in the river crying for her dead mother. The joys and sorrows of human beings are not the same, I just think they are noisy. ”
Indeed, a mature person must make himself more restrained and rational, at least so that he will not meddle in his affairs and will not please anyone.
When a person is so strong that he doesn't need to please anyone, he has more time to pay attention to himself, improve himself, and dig himself.
Then, you can control the rhythm of life by yourself, improve your inner self, and rely on yourself, you can live more transparently, live more independently, and even become stronger and stronger.
There are four major meddling things in life: helping rotten mud, carving rotten wood, turning salted fish, and scalding pigs.
No matter what it is, since it's all nosy, then we need to work hard to do not do, not to hear, not to hear, not to see, not to care.
As Dickens said
"The best politeness is not to meddle. ”
Then, if you dare to isolate others, or even if you are isolated by others, you don't care.
Not afraid of being isolated
Many people are too afraid of being left behind, too worried about being isolated, so they always become anxious and afraid of being forgotten.
As a result, I will always give myself some pressure for no reason for some reason, and I will always become more and more sensitive and vulnerable.
In the end, I became more and more miserable, more and more tormented, and more and more passive and helpless.
In fact, people are not the same, we only let ourselves have the confidence and courage not to be afraid of being isolated, even if one person moves forward, we must move forward bravely.
Only in this way can we be ourselves, live ourselves, and ultimately become ourselves by finding ways to be ourselves.
In this way, you can reach the height of your life and make yourself more and more down-to-earth and calm every day.
Mai Jia wrote in "The Sea of Life":
"The height of life is not how many things you can see clearly, but how many things you look down on. ”
Life is like this, talk less empty words, do more practical things, see some people clearly, and after seeing some things clearly, we must learn to look down on them, or even let them go.
In this way, we can reach higher and higher heights in life, and we can make our every day more peaceful and calm.
Therefore, we must have the courage not to be afraid of being isolated, even if we are alone, we must let ourselves persevere to the end and live the light of life.
Because only when we are getting stronger and stronger now, we can belong to the kind of lonely king, and we can really rely on ourselves to move towards a better future.
Of course, at this time, we also dare to isolate others, or even everyone.
For this reason, I can also become more free and easy, and feel at ease.
Dare to isolate others
Although Russell once said:
"Only when roses and jasmine bloom together will there be a jagged beauty in this world. ”
However, in fact, the real human nature is that only by making yourself better, independent, and strong first can you get along with others, and in the end, everyone is good, and it is really good.
If you don't have enough ability and strength, then even if you have connections on the surface, in fact, you can't give yourself any value.
Because I can't give others the so-called value, I can only rely on myself to survive the spring, summer, autumn and winter, and bear the ups and downs.
Life is like this, either you are isolated by others and let yourself sad and disappointed, or you isolate everyone and silently move forward behind your back.
In this way, I will not be nosy, but live more calmly and confidently, and more calmly and sunny.
Life is the only way, only by letting yourself work hard and moving forward on your own, can you finally succeed in landing.