Children are tired of school, parents should guide children to relax, accept these problems, so that children can have an objective and realistic evaluation of themselves, they can help children avoid powerlessness, find hope and motivation, advocate to communicate with children attentively, to feel the child's inner thoughts, to be a strong backstage for children.
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How to persuade children who are tired of school
1. Understand the reasons for boredom.
To find the crux of the boredom of learning, it is too difficult to learn common sense, too much common sense, too much pressure on the learning mission, and there are still other external temptations to attract. After figuring out the reasons for being bored with school, push the boat with the current, divert your attention, participate in some social practice activities, relax and relax, improve the importance of learning, and then guide you into the learning state.
2. Accept the child.
When the child says the real reason why he doesn't want to go to school, it means that the child has an unpleasant experience at school, at this time, parents should be able to empathize with all the feelings of the child and receive all the emotions of the child, this time is conducive to the guidance and alleviation of the child's mood, so that the child has more time to think about whether to go to school, and then more conducive to solving the problem.
3. Take a correct view of learning.
We need to educate our children that learning is not only for exams and further education, but more importantly, for cultivating their hobbies and talents. We can work with our children to ** their favorite subjects and categories to stimulate their love of learning. Together, we also want children to understand that learning is a long-term process, which requires hard effort and time, but as long as they persevere, they will definitely get results.
4. Encourage children to build self-confidence.
Children who are tired of school often lack determination about their talents, so we need to praise and encourage them to believe that they have the talent to overcome difficulties and achieve success. Together, we should also teach them that failure is not terrible, the important thing is to learn and grow from failure.
What are the reasons why children are tired of school?
1. The study pressure is too great, the student's brain load is too heavy, and the student does not get enough rest, and then the psychology of learning is bored. I call this "suppressed boredom", this kind of aversion to learning is the most numerous, but also the most tricky.
2. The learning method is wrong, the more you learn, the more difficult it becomes, instead of the easier it is to learn, and finally you are stumped and don't want to learn anymore. This kind of boredom is like riding a donkey to the moon, the more difficult it becomes.
3. In the case of interpersonal conflict with teachers or classmates in school, students have no talent to resolve the resistance, and avoid the resistance by being tired of learning. This is called getting angry with my mother-in-law, but I want to divorce my wife.
4. Under the influence of bad civilization or bad people, the concept of "reading is useless" occurs, hobbies and hobbies are seriously violated, and school boredom occurs. This is called a bird cannon for a gun, not a shotgun for a gun. If you can't go on the right path, you will definitely go to the dead end if you take the evil road.
5. The foundation is too poor, and I can't keep up with the progress of learning at all, and I have to be a deserter in the end. This situation is a bit like building a tall building on a glass plate and building an aircraft carrier in a waterlogged pond.