In the process of children's growth, will go through a rebellious period, parents should master the correct communication methods, understand their inner ideas, as long as they know the true ideas of the children's hearts, parents can better carry out educational work, guide children to establish the correct three views, so as to restrain their own behavior.
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What should parents do during their child's adolescent rebellious period?
1. Combine work and rest.
It is a child's nature to love to play, and at the same time give him private space while restricting his various behaviors, for example, if he wants to play after completing today's homework, let him play, but make an appointment. This method will not only restrain him from betraying his state of mind, but will also make him understand that there is a reward for completing the policy.
2. Give him praise.
When your child does the right job, parents should praise him. Give your child more psychological encouragement, which will make him more confident and want to express his ideas.
3. Find the reason.
There are all kinds of rules in many families, and the original intention of formulating these rules is to make the family better and friendlier, most of them are resistant when formulating rules for children, you have to understand them, but this understanding does not mean inaction, you just need to find the reasons and reasons for the child's resistance and try to communicate with him more rather than forcing him to do it, which will only exacerbate his rebellious mood.
4. Take care of your mood.
Many practical examples indicate that when children do some bad behaviors because they want to vent their mood, there is also a short sense of security by doing "bad" things to gain the attention of parents, so when children do wrong things, try not to blindly scold him, he just accumulates a lot of bad mood, parents only need to correctly guide their children to release his bad mood, give him more security, and this kind of work is more likely to occur in single-child families, so as long as the parents of a child need to pay more attention to this.
What's going on with kids who don't want to go to school anymore.
1. It's not good to make friends. Some children make friends who don't like to read, maybe they play games, maybe they skip school and hate school, or they may have a great negative mood, and the child is affected and tired of school.
2. There is no motivation to learn. Every time a child does not do well in a test, it will show frustration, which will lead to a decrease in the child's motivation and preference for learning. If parents do not guide their children in time at this time, then the children will be tired of learning and may be avoiding learning.
3. Lack of learning preferences. Children who do not have a taste for learning will find learning very boring. In learning, I can't feel the joy and satisfaction of learning, so I procrastinate in learning and don't like to learn.