After working for 11 years, I have been revolving around the work, trying to prove that I can also do it, upgrading all the way to fight monsters, breaking through seniority, and competing for management.
It seems that everything seems to be so smooth, the annual salary can also be 30+, the work is decent, and I have met a lot of nobles in my career, as long as I continue to walk along this road.
However, the work is always endless KPIs, endless meetings, endless materials, reports, voluntary overtime selfless dedication, work news and frequent overtime work anytime and anywhere, as if work is the whole of life!
has been dedicated to his career for 11 years, and has never cooked for his children, held an umbrella, or carried a bag;
But I have drunk, smoked, and danced for work, hoping that as the boss said, I am optimistic and positive, and I can live a decent life!
Later, I joined a start-up company and wanted to fight while I still had the heart, but I ended up working 12 hours a day, and I had to be PUA by my boss!
I arrive at the office an hour early every day, and I often work overtime at night, even if I become the "volume king" of the office, I still can't finish the work at hand.
This company also likes that all matters are communicated through WeChat, and after joining the company, my WeChat friends have increased dramatically, and I have joined countless demand ** flow groups, communication groups, and business groups.
It takes a long time to read all kinds of news every day, and sometimes other colleagues are still discussing work in the group at eleven or twelve o'clock at night, and they are active in front of the boss.
One day, I couldn't bear it, and I lay down for a long time, but ** and WeChat were all blown up, and even told me about special things, even if I climbed, I had to crawl.
The moment I heard this, I felt very uncomfortable, and the thought of resigning flashed for a while.
Later, because of the long-term work of more than 12 hours and the commuting time of 3 hours, the body finally couldn't stand it.
During the 3-day holiday, I worked overtime while lying in bed.
At the end of the holiday, I went back to work, I didn't have the strength to hold the pen, I didn't have the strength to type the keyboard, I gasped when I said two sentences, I moved a little louder, my heart beat fast, and I realized that my state may not be suitable for continuing to work.
I walked into the leader's office and told him that I might need to take a break and that my physical condition did not allow me to continue working.
He told me to take my work home and work from home, but what I needed was a real break.
At that moment, I was so determined to quit that I couldn't continue working.
Eventually, I submitted my resignation report, and quickly made a list of the work at hand on the same day.
The day after I left the company, I began to withdraw from various WeChat groups, delete friends, I didn't receive a notice at 12 o'clock in the middle of the night that we had a meeting, and I wouldn't receive a message on the weekend that there was an emergency to deal with, and my ears were quiet.
After quitting my job, although I was anxious for a while and had no income, it was not a bad thing, at least it made me realize that my body is more important than work and earning money.
Health is number one! Ma Weidu Ma Ye is very right!
Ma Ye said: Suddenly found out that you had a serious illness, you found that those are not important, what matters is your own existence, whether you can recover from the disease, you suddenly found that this is the most important.
It doesn't matter if I have less money, it doesn't matter if I'm financially free or not, it doesn't matter if my love can be held on, whether I can have it or not, the most important thing is that I can live a healthy life in this society by myself! ”
Health is the most important, and I really agree with what Ma Lao said.
Health is 1, without 1, wealth, love, status ......It's all 0.
As the old saying goes: You can't afford to be weak.
If your health is affected by your work, then no matter how generous the remuneration is, the gains outweigh the losses.