The reason why you are getting better and better is never because of anyone, but because of saving yourself again and again.The confusion in life lies in how to make oneself happy, sometimes people mistakenly pin their happiness on others, and let their emotions be moved by others. Then I was surprised to find that it was difficult to be happy, most of the time I was confused about why I was unhappy, and while always paying attention to others with my eyes, I couldn't find out that I was wrong at all, and I could only resent myself while immersing myself in negative emotions.
When looking at others too pretentiously, it will make your emotions unconsciously fluctuate with the other person, and it will make the person being watched feel deeply uncomfortable. So, in exchange for the unhappiness of two people and the complaints of two people, one complains that he is looked down on too closely, and one complains that he is not valued for his efforts; One person begins to suspect that he is not good enough, and one person begins to get tired of the sense of urgency with which two people get along.
Then, you will be surprised to find that the original relationship will not make people better, and even make people worse, and two people who can't handle feelings well will eventually become slaves of feelings. No one likes the feeling of being served, so they are separated by two people and two hearts. Therefore, when facing feelings, you should be yourself better, you must love yourself well at all times, first of all, each of us is an independent person, snuggling up to each other can be warm, over-reliance will only be overwhelming.
The reason why a person is getting better and better should be to be down-to-earth and then do a good job based on this steadfastness, do what he loves, learn, struggle, and discover the beauty of the world. Then, in the process of moving forward, I met myself more and more calmly, and the relaxed and beautiful state was a reward for saving myself again and again. Who can really understand you? Maybe only you have experienced, cried, laughed, and been silent, so ah, dear yourself, you are your biggest supporter, the last support, if you are strong and brave, the world will be beautiful, and if you are cowardly and withdrawn, the world will show your teeth and claws.