Some parents are extremely depressed and anxious because their children are tired of school due to Internet addiction or other reasons, or even refuse to go to school. Today's children are formed by long-term accumulation, freezing three feet is not a day's cold, normal and abnormal are not a day's work. Today, we will first analyze one of the parents' behaviors and make recommendations.
Whether parents are addicted to mobile phones or computer games is an important reason for children to develop study habits. After the child is out of school, many parents only accompany the child as a formality, you write your homework, I play with my mobile phone or computer; Some parents even play voices, or often get angry because of the content of their mobile phones, can children concentrate on learning in such an environment? Can you not be curious about the phone in your hand? You know, children are at their most curious.
In particular, it is recommended that parents start to change today and educate their children with their own words and deeds. Parents are advised to take a book to read before their children get home and go to bed, if they have non-essential social contact, and the details are as follows:
1. Buy a new book today, unpack it in front of the child, and attract the child's attention, no need to say much.
2. Read the book carefully and sit upright in the child's sight. If you can't see it, pretend to be serious.
3. It is best to choose a parent-child education and psychology book that can be read by parents and children, or a classic masterpiece; If "The Analects" can't be understood and doesn't fit your temperament, then "Journey to the West" can always be done, right?
4. After reading the book, you can share your learning experience and experience with your child, and tell your child: I found that I still have insufficient reserves in the ability to educate you, which led to such and such problems, but it doesn't matter, we work together to change, and make a little progress every day, which can reach thousands of miles.
5. With the books in our hands, we are cultural people, so can we still scold people? Can the lion roar in Hedong? Even if it's scolding, you have to scold it culturally, right? At this point, I will publish a special article in the future to analyze how to "scold children".
Today's suggestion has been completed, and I will repeat it: life is endless, learning is not stopping, you are learning to be a parent, he is learning to become a pillar; If you lie flat, he'll be rotten!