Even if you can t become a master of mentality, don t become a slave to emotions

Mondo Psychological Updated on 2024-03-01

Author: Zhang Zongbao Editor: Li Zhen.

A person's life is very much like walking in the fog, unfathomable, auspicious and evil, only by summoning up the courage, boldly moving forward, and having the courage to explore, can we climb to the apex of glory and reach the other side of victory.

We must know that others and the world will not be dominated by us, but it is the best soil for our spiritual growth, repair our hearts, see the way forward, control our emotions, even if we can't become the master of our mentality, don't become a slave of emotions.

In this society, no one can be invincible in all things, invincible, invincible and indestructible, so it is said that heroes are not judged by success or failure, dare to fight is attitude, good at turning is wisdom, have the courage to let go, learn to forget, know how to follow fate, remember that the interaction between people is always mutual, only to pay sincerity can get true feelings, only full of goodwill will be full of blessings. The Buddha said, "Planting good causes, bearing good fruits, and helping others is actually helping oneself." ”

A person who can handle the three things calmly must be a blessed person.

First of all, no matter how others evaluate, look at, or even attack yourself, you can deal with it calmly, which shows that you have lived your own life and live an open-minded and free life. Because there is no absolute right and wrong in the world, only cause and effect, what you do, what you encounter, there is a reason.

Secondly, being able to stay calm when encountering a love calamity shows that your heart is strong. I don't owe it in the past life, and I don't see it in this life; When we meet in this life, we all have a cause. The Buddha said: "Life gathers and scatters, but it is just the end of fate." "If the fate comes, it will gather, and when the fate ends, it will be scattered, the love is voluntary, and there is no regret about it. The Book of Changes says: "Hexagram, ninety-two, tantan, and secluded Zhenji." "Blessing is something that cannot be explained and cannot be easily understood, but only those who are calm can have it, but it is difficult for those who are impetuous to experience.

Finally, in the midst of prosperity, people who can always stay sober, stick to the road to simplicity, not be arrogant or impatient, and can maintain a normal heart are the real enlightened.

Everyone understands the truth, but if we want to achieve enlightenment, we must go through arduous cultivation, which requires us to have keen observation and analytical skills. Have strong willpower and perseverance; have a wide range of knowledge and culture; Have noble character and sentiment.

The poem says: Hard-working and half-life on the desk, drinking rigidity and softness in the wind and rain, living in peace and poverty, and being indifferent and calm.

The moon is bright and the countryside is dreaming, the stars are cold and the twilight is on the floor, the idle clouds and wild cranes are happy to retreat, and the lady is a child.

Note: Rigidity and softness: refers to benevolence, righteousness, propriety, wisdom and faith.

Ziniu: The allusion is from "The Six Years of Mourning the Father", the son of Qi Jinggong, doting on him. Once, Tu said that he wanted to ride a bull to play, Jing Gong personally lay on the ground as a cow, and there was a rope in his mouth, so that Tu could lead him to run, Tu rode on Jing Gong's back, accidentally fell down, and broke Jing Gong's front teeth, this is the origin of the Ruzi Niu.

Six strokes at the beginning of the twelfth year of the year of the Lunar New Year.

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