Every age of people will have its mission, and there are things to experience at this age, including things that we think are good, and things that we think are not good, for example, we have to fall in love while we are young.
Why do we want to fall in love while we are young, because when we are young, we will not think so thoroughly, and we are not mature and stable enough, we will listen to our inner voice, fully release ourselves, and love as much as we want.
If you have had such an experience, you will find a big difference between the love when you are young and the love you have after middle age, when you are young, when you date a girl, it is simple, happy and natural, and the love after middle age is anxious, heavy and uneasy. It may not be right, but my experience tells me that it is.
When you reach middle age, when you fall in love again, it will be another state, you may become very sensitive, always sentimental, although everything will be thought through, in the same way, you will also add a burden to yourself, you may never feel that kind of carefree love again, always weighing left and right.
If you look at it from the perspective of right or wrong, your own love when you were young is definitely not right.
But the problem is that it takes a period of time and experience to fully release these wrong desires in your body. In the process of release, there will definitely be some harm, damage to the person you like, damage to yourself, and damage to the relationship, and these injuries are bound to be painful.
It's just that you still need to experience them, to experience them, especially when you're young, and if you miss it, you can't have that feeling, that kind of memory.