From primary school to junior high school to high school, it is normal for children to be bored with school, but after children are tired of school, it will inevitably affect children's academic performance. Only by finding out the reasons for children's boredom can we help children overcome their children's boredom in school, and the following Kyushu Jinbang family education analyzes the reasons for children's boredom in school from the following points and how to help children overcome their boredom.
1. What are the reasons for children's boredom in school?
1. Parents' comparison psychology.
Parents always like to compare their children with other people's children, when their children are excellent, they like to show off, when their children are not as good as other people's children, they will speak ill of their children, which makes children at a loss in many times, causing great psychological damage to children, and gradually children lose interest in learning.
2. Parents don't pay enough attention to their children.
Parents cannot spend a long time with their children because of work, and under normal circumstances, children are taken by grandparents. Children do not have the teaching of their parents, and grandparents do not know how to educate children scientifically, which makes it easy for children to lose themselves, and parents do not know how to discipline children scientifically. How can children not be bored with school?
3. Family environmental impact.
Parents are the first teachers of children, the family is the soil for children's growth, and the formation of children's character and behavior habits depends on the family. Parents are the objects of imitation by children, so parents have the most important influence on their children.
4. Negative energy transfer.
Some parents will always have negative energy, thinking that as long as their children can make money, it is useless to study, and they will also pass on this kind of thinking to their children.
5. Unreasonable study planning.
Children in the learning process, there will be a fatigue period, because the learning content is too much, and the process is boring, monotonous, lack of interest, and parents are afraid that the child will lose at the starting line, will arrange a lot of extracurricular homework, this unreasonable learning planning is very easy to make children tired of learning. It causes a serious psychological burden on the child.
6. Expectations are too high.
Many parents have too high expectations for their children, seriously exceeding the range of their children's tolerance, as parents can not clearly recognize their children's cognitive ability, children work hard, but do not meet parents' expectations, parents will be punished, which seriously hurts the child's self-esteem, and the child will be disgusted with school.
7. Don't know how to encourage children.
When the child encounters setbacks in learning, or the test results are not good, at this time parents do not know how to enlighten the child, but blame the child, this education method is easy to make the child lose enthusiasm for learning, parents do not know how to encourage education, has been negative education, so that the child gradually loses confidence.
Second, the solution to school boredom.
1. Help children build self-confidence.
Children also have self-esteem and care about what others think of them, so parents encourage their children more, give their children more affirmative education in their usual education, avoid negative education, and help children build self-confidence.
2. Learn to decompress your child.
Parents should develop scientific education methods according to their children's abilities, and formulate a learning process suitable for their children's cognitive abilities.
3. Cultivate children's good study habits.
Habits have a very big impact on a person, and learning is even more so. How can parents cultivate their children's learning habits and the determination to overcome difficulties, so that their children can benefit from learning for life.
4. Encouraging education.
Everyone likes to be praised by others, and children want their parents to praise themselves more, so in daily life, praise children more and blame less, which is very helpful for children to build confidence and stimulate children's potential.
5. Create a good family atmosphere.
The family environment plays an extremely important role in a child's mind and talents. Parents should create a good learning atmosphere for their children, watch less TV and read more books at home, and children will naturally learn in this atmosphere.
6. Transmit positive energy.
Only when the children's values are correct, the children can behave and do things better, so in the process of education, give the children more positive energy.
In short, children's education, more positive guidance, children have a sense of boredom with school, parents should not be anxious, find out the reason for the child's boredom with school, treat it correctly, encourage the child more, and the child can achieve himself!